@phoenixpathway: He Uses Precision To Manage You Instead Of Meet You He knows the exact phrases to make your shoulders drop and end the argument, but that same precision never shows up when you need real effort. That isn't intimacy. That is inventory. He treats your needs like inconvenient demands and finds the cheapest possible way to regulate your emotions so he never has to pay the price of actually showing up. Stop confusing a man who knows how to calm you down with a man who is willing to meet you. #relationshipadvice #datingtipsforwomen #feminineenergy #knowyourworth

Jess-A-Sunny-Day :

“I hear/d you”…yet never puts the actions toward showing me he did. I could die waiting for him to prove he heard me and planned on doing something with that information or that he learned something about my needs.

Lexness Monster :

I had a visceral reaction to this one the other day… “I don’t want to be with anyone else but you” 😳🙄 bc my dumb ass wanted to feel chosen & he knows that

Harley Baby Time :

Ur hair is giving me life

Amby Nola :

How do you know this is the way they are? What does this mean the person acts like this

ReiN :

Typical lines involve jokes he knows I like, offering a short term reward like food or drinks, or doing a singular task he was going to do anyway. These things would all be "nice" if not for the timing. It's disrespectful bc it's the same as giving a child a piece of candy so you can distract them from bringing up a serious issue

ickedout :

Landon we’re so lucky for you to be on earth right now when we need you

mx sirène :

Oh no he knows, he just chooses not to. 😬

miha_cl :

🙄 Damn, Landon!!

Eternally Speaking :

It’s the way you break it down so clearly that dead ass has me contemplating deeply. Good to know thank you!

Wicked13gemini :

he was the fing master at it. and i hate him for it.

Sweet.cheeks :

You are smart and thank you for sharing

Bluebird :

This is so true ,sad ,brutal ,but true and the truth will set us free

Julie Dianne :

Crumbs

Bayley :

Could you give some examples of the lines they use?

Blooming Anyway :

Soooooo you summed that up well….

nomorechicken :

Oof. True.

Cassie :

Ruby :

Yep!! You got it right

Lisa_Styles :

The only way you can coach women in this direction is if you understand the wounded man fully. Almost as if you either were this yourself and healed, or watched a woman close to you deal with a wounded man?

Ri :

@lumpy lungs

theonlylarina :

💀💀💀