@soulserenitywithrachel: Choosing yourself after you’ve spent years choosing everyone else can feel like guilt before it feels like freedom. That doesn’t mean you’re making the wrong decision. #therapist #relationshiptips #coach #detachment #mindsetshift
How do I leave when they think everything is fine. I feel guilty for leading my husband on
2026-07-30 06:05:44
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PixieDust03 :
I wish someone would tell me it’s ok to leave. The guilt of the thought is driving me insane
2026-07-27 22:17:29
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Meagan Rice :
It’s so hard. I feel like I wasted the best years of my life on a great person, but I’ve always been so unfulfilled. I knew before we married that I felt this way, but it’s too much work to start over.
2026-08-13 05:04:30
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S Martin :
100% me....going to couples counseling sitting there knowing there's no way I can do this for another 5, 10, 15 years.
2026-07-29 21:11:32
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Corena 🦋 :
Its like i CANT let go i cant explain it either.
2026-08-13 03:09:15
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lindseymr31 :
Sitting on my couch next to our 3 year old, knowing it’s time to leave and that staying will keep hurting me yet the words won’t come out.
2026-07-28 03:42:06
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Rhiannon 🩷 :
10 years of my life gone and I don’t think I’ll ever be able to love selflessly again
2026-07-27 16:37:47
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bereniceeee8a :
N how does one do it
2026-07-27 16:07:19
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Mary Wolfe :
like why cant I just start cleaning our rental house to be prepared to move into it...
2026-07-30 17:13:34
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momo :
almost 2 and 3 year old and i’m trying so hard to stay and work this out but i’ve been hurt so much by their dad that i don’t know what to do.
2026-07-28 18:35:52
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Big Squish :
Why do I still feel like I need to go back 🥺
2026-07-29 21:20:17
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McKayla.Elizabeth :
Oof. Forever thankful for the therapist that sat with me for 3 years until I was strong enough to leave. Thank you for what you do.
2026-07-28 19:16:01
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MrsMurphy :
I checked myself into a mental health facility for clarity and confirmation of what I already knew
2026-07-28 01:23:03
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Jenny LouBop🦋 :
Took me atleast 3 years to finally do it and we were together 14 years
2026-07-27 23:02:54
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Karina Del Toro :
Are therapists not allowed to tell you to leave ?
2026-07-28 02:58:41
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Ashley :
I waited 11 years. ELEVEN years for him to act right. The cheating, the lies , the mental abuse. The silent treatments. The acknowledgment of his actions. Now that he’s been working on it for some time now… I’m afraid I don’t feel the same way anymore
2026-07-29 02:23:38
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Petty finger :
I want to leave but my husband can’t support himself. I can’t put my kids dad out and it feel like it might never happen.
2026-07-29 06:32:26
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Hillychelle :
Being stuck in this place is agony and feels impossible
2026-07-29 02:18:24
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deerslayer225899 :
I detached and lost feelings months ago, but they are suffering some hardships in their life, which a couple of them directly correlate to why my feelings changed, but I feel obligated to stay and be there for them, but I know in my heart I don’t feel the same anymore. It is a draining and stressful spot to be in. They are a wonderful person. Besides the issues they have in their life it really messes with your mind when you’re trying to be a good person, but you know deep down your feelings aren’t going to return😔
2026-07-28 10:20:25
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natalya :
I don’t leave cause we share a baby… I can’t imagine missing out on half her life…
2026-08-21 04:04:42
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Cass 🛍️ :
I hate even telling my therapist about what this weeks disrespect is anymore
2026-08-25 15:19:31
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Alisha Shiri :
He makes me feel like I’m the one letting it go…so initiating it makes me feel like the villain…
2026-08-18 19:13:56
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filipina50_50 :
I found the courage to leave and it was wonderful and then we “got back together” and nothing has changed and now I feel dreadfully stuck (not the right word but not sure the best one either - maybe a little ashamed and embarrassed I went back).
2026-08-15 18:24:32
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Susan Foley :
100%
2026-08-14 15:02:44
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