I’m interested in how you think attraction occurs. If two strangers meet visual attraction is pretty much all you have. Once you move past that you get to know each other and find out if you have common interests and enjoy the company of each other. The only exception to this is someone you’ve known all your life and never considered them as a companion but you realize that there’s nobody that you would rather be with. The thing I don’t understand is when I see a woman that I find attractive my heart beats faster and I want to get to know her. Once I get to know her my interest either increases or decreases. I’m assuming it’s the same for women. If it’s not please explain it to me.
2026-07-29 02:56:26
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Yes!! You explained this so well!!! And I think people in our community get this mixed up a whole lot - they think we’re brewing women the same way a man does, when I say I’m a sexual person, I don’t mean I objectify women 🖤
2026-07-27 23:44:36
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Evonne Givens :
Most of us don’t objectify women..for me personally sexual chemistry is soo much better when there’s an emotional connection.
2026-07-27 16:14:57
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Katie💕♈️🛸👻🧬🐱☘️ :
INTERESTING. I also notice if I was with a man I never had a type because it’s only a vibe aka chemistry. And most the time they weren’t conventionally attractive. But also I always felt like we were just roommates.
2026-07-27 20:35:18
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Kris 🏳️🌈 wlw :
So sexual chemistry usually comes first for me... It sucks when that is completely destroyed once I get to know them more.
2026-07-27 21:19:04
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cherhead 🏳️🌈 ♀️♌🐾 50+ :
I have to have an emotional connection & I also have a strong tendency towards high intelligence. I'm the type who would choose a science nerd over a cover model.
2026-07-27 18:53:34
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