When men say stuff like this I automatically assume they want a woman who pays for everything 🙄
2026-07-27 18:58:01
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brooke :
Honestly in a time like this when women’s rights are threatened and seen as a political option, the least a guy could do is pay for a date. If it was the other way around and I had the upper hand, and their rights were threatened instead of mine, the last thing I would do is complain about the bullshit he is.
2026-07-27 23:26:26
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🍃Ceecee the semidigitalvirgo :
The open minded man will reflect how closed minded the woman is... Then date open minded women or men? This feels very deconstruct patriarchy so straight women will date bi men. So tired of this conversation.
2026-07-27 23:24:28
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Tiktoker :
when he says he “allows” women to explore! the mask was slipping a bit
2026-07-27 17:20:27
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schmiggy.azalea :
Men like this support the parts of feminism that make their lives easier but also want to keep what they benefit from in patriarchy 😬
2026-07-27 19:15:28
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Janelle 🇵🇸 :
They made the game, they set the rules, and as soon as we were allowed to sit at the table to play, we started winning and now they’re mad that we beat them in their own game
2026-07-27 19:20:23
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Bozkurt0604 :
To right-wing men, we are private property. To left-wing men, we are public property.
-Andrea Dworkin
2026-07-27 18:53:54
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Tasneem :
'Socially accepting' and 'open minded' yet he has grievances about someone else's preferences? Hmm.
2026-07-27 17:45:04
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Adriannapotts_ :
Men will be men! Not matter the color or political standing 😩
2026-07-27 18:06:53
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abalancedmoon :
I unfollowed him because “open minded” seemed very loaded.
2026-07-27 21:38:22
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Sam :
I don’t want to submit. I want to be safe.
2026-07-27 17:11:19
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Rachel Gurjar :
They hate that we have a choice. And will literally find thousand ways to take those choices away from us.
2026-07-27 19:29:45
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unfriendlyrobot9 :
He feels entitled to all women.. is he not listening to himself?
2026-07-27 19:39:13
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Femme Ferocity :
We're not going to dismantle the patriarchy. We're going to build its replacement
2026-07-27 23:20:48
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nthenboomlol :
I’m so tired of men right or left
2026-07-27 20:50:13
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❤️ :
He’s talking about biphobia and homophobia coming from straight women who pretend to be progressive. I think his message got lost, he’s being specific about a singular type of woman who use patriarchy as an excuse for their homophobia (towards bi men). That’s why he’s saying they are picking and choosing patriarchy, but not examining their own internalized patriarchal influence (homophobia). You both are saying the same exact thing. You’re agreeing with each other, he’s just referencing larger discourse about biphobia and his context was lost.
2026-07-27 20:05:56
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Bozkurt0604 :
He does not wanna work next.
2026-07-27 18:54:42
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Gazelle Mone’t :
I’ve followed him for a while, not necessarily because I agree with his beliefs - but to keep myself up on game on how these men think. And I certainly remember him saying how he wants to start a cult. Lol.
2026-07-27 18:06:57
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Revelator :
So, immediately, the very first thing this man describes is the concept of the benevolent patriarchy and many women’s desire to not dismantle patriarchy but rather change the patriarchy to their benefit while still upholding it. That is a feminist concept! While not using the same terminology, he is effectively describing a feminist view point. He then goes on to say that what he has found as a liberal man is that women often overstate their progressive ideals because the only people they’ve ever compared themselves to are conservative men. A fair point to makes. So at 3 1/2 minutes in, we are already failing to recognize actual feminist talking points, misrepresenting what was actually said, and refusing to engage in the explicitly stated subject matter. I’ll keep going to see where he messes up but it’s not lookin good for you so far chief
2026-07-27 21:47:40
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Moni ☆ Press On Nail Artist :
What I don’t get is in a patriarchy why it’s is shamed if women accept the benefits of it? Like we have so much stacked against us! Idc if it’s a double standard if it’s gonna benefit me I’m taking it. I.e I’m not splitting bills with a man and I’m not paying for dates ever!
2026-07-27 20:04:31
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meghnaistoomuch :
His argument is like “just stop using plastic straws” when *waves at everything* is plastic.
2026-07-27 18:50:07
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CK :
That video reminded me so much of my misogynistic leftist ex. Peak gaslighters because they're so left leaning and believe in equality for all, how could they possibly be treating a woman not like an equal?
2026-07-27 20:16:20
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G :
Gotta love a man telling the largest subset of women that they are doing feminism wrong.
2026-07-27 19:09:03
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