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Sandie S Heart :
you people confuse mistakes with choices..if a person cheats more than 3 times is it still a mistake? noo it's a choice that a person is making n it makes us loose interest in a relationship or romanc
2026-07-28 12:28:20
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Bongozayo :
Whatever happens don't forgive cheating🙏
2026-07-29 17:10:51
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Lee :
Past mistakes are triggered by familiar patterns
2026-07-28 08:02:53
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Samke Ngema :
I you didn't acknowledge and sincerely apologized with understanding of the impact it caused how deep the cut and humiliation undignified the significant other... Unfortunately it will keep coming up.🥺🥺🥺
2026-07-29 16:27:58
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Ms FEB 🌸👗🛍 :
Don't repeat the mistake, it won't be brought again. It will even be forgotten. Unless it's who you are.🤷♀️
2026-07-28 07:09:35
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Paula :
What if the mistake is the same thing repeated again and again how do we deal with that😭😭
2026-07-29 11:15:55
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HAPPY JEANS by Olwe2 Tantsi :
In my case its different,I'm married to a narcissist. I bring the past because there's never a solution or should I say he doesn't even want to discuss the issue, he'll always act as the victim, he doesn't apologize, if I decide to keep quiet and be in my feelings hurt/disappointed he will just be quiet and don't even bother asking kuthi what's wrong. Meaning he knows exactly what he did and doesn't care. If i don't force peace he will never even try. This has been going for years. I'm giving up guys, actually I've given up already. We have a 3yr old son & I'm 7 months pregnant and things are just worse😏😭...
2026-07-28 08:57:29
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Retha :
What happens if they keep doing the same mistake they did in the past
2026-07-28 03:42:51
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@KHUMO@ntk :
its even hard not to dwell in the past wen they make you feel like your feeling about wat happened are invalid and your just too much. if we learn that hurting someone and apologize means helping them walk through the pain with them and work with them into healing.🥹🥹🥹
2026-07-27 21:05:03
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Mqhele👑👸 🙏❤️ :
If that mistake was not properly discussed nd solved, it will always re- surface, especially if something similar to that mistake happens again
2026-07-28 08:46:35
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given_ndweni02 :
Is cheating a mistake???
2026-07-28 15:38:49
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MaZulu :
No time frame can determine when, how one should react, forget, forgive, heal and move past what was invalidated by the next person that time. If you no longer comfortable about the behaviour and have expectations from the one that was hurt then it’s best to move on and find peace elsewhere
2026-07-28 05:24:05
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carolbehane :
im still punished for mistakes I made last year March,I'm even having thoughts of leaving my relationship because the pain is unbearable but the thing is I love him and still hoping he will come around 😪
2026-07-28 09:03:08
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DEEP DOWN DJY :
This is why most of us Man mostly don't want to show up or be open with ourselves to our lovers but end up being in depression and anxiety or even more than that, suicide isn't a solution for all of us, but together we can do better than before 🙏🇿🇦
2026-07-28 04:51:02
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user2273194755988 :
so is slowly doing the same shit that hurt me nd expect me to remain the same.
2026-07-28 06:22:02
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Sanehkoo :
the damage people cz bacabanga ukuthi if belokhe benga similar mistakes lama dala azonyamalala nokuthi ukukhohlwa nokuxola kuyo ngokuthi emvakwalento eyenzekile how you handled it wenake one phutha.. and people yekan ukucabanga ukuthi iskhat soku healer siyashesha
2026-07-28 10:12:03
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Thembi Mahlangu :
true but are u changing frm that mistake or still repeating it bcz PPL bring it back if u are still doing it Nd if u ddnt gv the person to tlk about how they feel after the mistake
2026-07-28 06:35:48
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PIETER APHANE :
And there’s also an element of being punished for mistakes made by exes. Whenever there’s resemblance then one is triggered
2026-07-29 14:08:42
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@FortchSA :
Oh mina in my marriage I’m constantly reminded about how I made bad choices in my youth times that time he wasn’t even there… always have to explain why I chose to do those things… it cuts deep cz some of our choices when growing up were bcz of certain situations 😭😭😭 I regret why I opened up to him abt my past 🚮 🚮
2026-07-29 20:04:46
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Lerato Mlungu :
bringing up past mistake is the hurt resurfacing from not apologizing & taking accountability of the pain caused.
2026-07-28 07:31:41
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ShawnDe'Biggest :
Ive hurt her so much that I know and I’ve changed not only for her but for me too but somehow im reminded of how horrible I am 🥺💔im taking it day at a time
2026-07-29 13:47:35
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Bella_Ciao :
🥺🥺🥺Funny how this doesn’t only affect a relationship with a lover but also with a parent
2026-07-29 02:58:26
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