@agoldenway: Narcissistic family systems often create division between siblings through manipulation, favoritism, and triangulation. Understanding these family roles is the first step toward healing, setting healthy boundaries, and breaking generational cycles. #narcissisticparent #scapegoatchild #goldenchild #triangulation #generationaltrauma

Karebear :

Yup!! I’m the singled out child. My parents put my 4 siblings in front of me all the time… Im the youngest snd never understood when people said that I must have gotten spoiled.

Tiffny :

Unfortunately 😞

Janaé🧩🧩💙❤️🧡💛 :

That is freaky do you know my mom and my brothers cuz I feel like you was talking to me cuz literally everything you're saying was so spot on diabolical

Midwest Gardener :

Can’t wait . For freedom

McphersonGG :

My mother ….. covert religious narc turned both my brother and sister against me ☠️

CarrieBryant :

My dad. 100%. Now I’m hyper independent with self worth issues and my sister can’t function on her own.

Melanie :

I didn't realize this is so common amongst families, My mother did this with my daughter and myself,but also my siblings.It is all disfunction

dionnewilliamsart :

Having toxic parents (both), siblings don't stand a chance 😳 it's the saddest thing! I've zero relationships with any of my siblings, even when both parents are dead... it's literally tumbleweed 😔

Eugene In the Universe :

itsjazercastillon :

The way your children treat you when they no longer need you to live reflects how you were treating them when you still had to depend everything on their parents for survival.

May Burroughs :

Yep I was being blamed for things even after I left home like I broke the dishwasher 😒 bs

Miranda :

my mom treated my older and younger brothers like kings while my older sister, twin sister and i like trash..

suekingsbury :

im the scapegoat (middle daughter) I have never gotten on with my younger brother (golden child)

Jean Crossley (X-Men Version) :

The day I left was when my brother's kids called my food trash. That is LEARNED BEHAVIOR and that kid has special needs so he learned it from someone

Mrs.Larocque :

Is there anything i can say to my mom? Im brokenhearted. I miss my sister. Its been 2 years. Shes golden. Im scapegoat.

Modern Mom Media :

Yes WE are healing out LOUD!

ready2go :

girlsgirl763 :

Scapegoat here 🙋🏼‍♀️

sunnysgirl22 :

My MOTHER!!

missyamyrose :

Or the way my sister sees my mother as merely judgemental .And the realization that the parent still sees the child as what they were 30 years ago

Circadian2024 :

My now deceased sister didn’t get along at all. Towards the end when she was dying we both figured it out

ThatGuyChristopher :

Don’t forget the “enabler” sibling!

Trippin' Through Life :

100%. Love your glasses by the way.

jess🧸 :

yep. my sister and i were both at certain times in our childhoods. we switched roles

Renee Robertson :

Me and my brother finally have a good relationship. We’re in our 40s and I quietly went little to no contact about 5 years ago