@evertrauma: An avoidant rejects you and every instinct tells you to explain, chase, and close the distance — but that's exactly what destroys any chance you had.
The neuroscience behind why disappearing is the only thing that actually reaches them, and the harder question you should be asking yourself first.
their problems is not only love also in the life when come some problem with work or money
you for them is end of the world 🌎
not looking how too fix just excuses how to not fix . Or run away like go to holiday and after have more problems 🙃 Not speak only about live say also how is life with them any decision from them make them run away even from their problems. After bleme world about everything because dont even want see that they broken their life. Is like a child
2026-07-28 13:52:15
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orzeszek_pistacjowy :
Let me summarize: avoidants want you to act like their roommate, preferably a roommate who has no feelings or needs
2026-07-27 21:15:40
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Tricky :
fuck that. going through it. its toxic. my worth is way more powerful. I tried. she wants space she can have an abundance of it. I get to live properly now.
2026-07-27 21:07:02
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Ewelina Tadrous :
stupid . okay all is truth. but what you want to say ? that peoples have to understand that they avoidant and have problem ? ok Can understand but finally this is their problem and they have to fix that not partner!! that behaviour is like narcist ok not special but how much soneone have to pay to be with them . That advice should not existed because is not healthy to be with person like that . I'm been more them 4 years nothing change by the time just more bad and difficult. So if they dobt want see their problem and work on this . Better run away
2026-07-28 13:45:53
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