@brianavivian: I’m still here friends stick with me! I have so much to share but it’s hard right now. I hope you guys don’t mind these type of videos till I can get both arms free! She hasn’t been wanting to be in a carrier lately so I only have one free arm nowadays lol and miss thang is getting heavier and harder to hold with one arm 😅 #newborntrenches #firsttimemom #5weekspostpartum #newmominher30s #postpartumjourney

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hiitsericka
Ericka :
The lack of free time has been the hardest adjustment for me for sure, everyone told me but once you experience it your like oh they weren’t kidding🤯
2026-07-28 03:18:32
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andreardz.09
Andrea Rodriguez :
I’m sure we ALL felt the same way.. and to be honest, I’m 8 months in and I still don’t have time. They grow, learn, and become much more mobile where you need to have an eye on them ALWAYS. I
2026-07-28 03:37:57
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joselyn_bernard
Joselyn_Bernard 🌺 :
I feel this to my core! I am also struggling with prioritizing tasks and chores. There are days where I look like I got hit by a train but at least my baby is changed into a cute outfit 😅 A win is a win. Also the amount of takeout we have bought is diabolical. The thought of cooking after looking after a newborn all day is enough to send me into a spiral lol I need to do better though, for the sake of our wallets.
2026-07-27 23:49:57
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fatimajspringer
Fatima | Boy Mom 🩵 :
It’s weirdly so comforting to see you come over to the other side 😂 I always get jealous of people who have so much time to post and make content because I would seriously love nothing more than to finally edit and post my drafts but I just don’t have time- and when I do, like you I have to do something that takes priority. The lack of time and the lack of help is what put me into ppa/ppd. My husband unfortunately only got ONE additional day off with both babies after we came home from the hospital, and I remember feeling resentful that friends didn’t come by, but no one else had kids yet so they really had no idea
2026-07-28 03:03:16
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jazmine.c91
JazmineC :
The first 3 months are rough and a little bit of a daze. When you are out its still challenging but you are more experienced and things become easier.
2026-07-27 22:22:48
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ttc.babystet5
babystet - IVF mama 🩵 :
I feel this!! my son also wants to be held basically all day so it’s hard to do anything 🙃 including pump
2026-07-28 13:57:33
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elizabeth__mbm
Eli 🫧 🌸🐚 :
I appreciate these videos because I can relate! My baby just turned 1month and the new born trenches are so real and I also didn’t realize how hard this was going to be. My family is an hour away and I also don’t have people over all the time which is harrrd. So I find comfort in these videos thank you for sharing 🩷
2026-07-28 01:39:53
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user3567976855119
user3567976855119 :
I truly understand, I saw that with mine daughter. Yes, infants do require constant attention. You and baby are first. We understand and we will wait for you to share all your wonderful experiences. Godspeed, Brianna.
2026-07-27 22:03:28
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jmlove2078
jmlove207 :
Girl same, baby is calm but always wants to be held lol also I have family close but they don’t help and only come to see the baby 😑
2026-08-01 07:08:26
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smlolita760
Lolita760 :
Im 29 weeks atm , my mom lives in Texas and I in San Diego , she wants to come stay with me a few months or move back to Ca to help me cus im the last one to have kids so she really wants to be there , my husband has 3 months of paternity leave . Im already training my baby to like loud noises 😅 so she doesn’t wake up with ill be doing chores
2026-08-11 13:30:23
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maryelrod94
Mary Elrod :
Girl if you don’t have a baby carrier, GET ONE! I clean the house and do chores while I wear the baby. She takes the best naps in the carrier too! The ergo baby embrace is great.
2026-07-27 21:57:09
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maggiemedina480
maggiemedina480 :
I promise you it does get better mama ❤️. Having my first baby rocked my world !
2026-07-29 03:18:17
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bonsiou
brb :
curious your transition when you go back to work, I go back in Sept and I am stresssedddd
2026-07-28 01:59:45
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ashleylomelimendoza
ASHLEY | SAHM OF TWO GIRLS 🎀✨ :
Idk how moms vlog every day with a newborn lol I just put out my first vlog this morning and it was short and sweet 😂 and I look busted half the time 🤣
2026-07-30 15:26:55
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solspunthreads
solspunthreads :
Don’t worry girl, we are still here with you! No stress, you can post videos whenever 😌🩷
2026-07-30 02:11:12
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kayak_4_life25
Kayak4life :
I feel you I didn’t realize havigg by a baby was going to be hard it has gotten better in some ways that I made some changes to help me feel ok and now she is 7 weeks. I literally take it a day at a time
2026-07-28 03:39:51
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genesisnatalya
Genesis Natalya :
I don’t mind these videos 🥰
2026-07-30 18:27:59
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mishicatt
mishicatt :
I still can’t find the time and she is about to be 4 months tmrw 🥺 soaking it all in and enjoying every moment but I really don’t know how I’m gonna go back to work (wfh) in a few weeks without help for most of the day 😳
2026-07-28 02:26:59
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reedc_
Reed C 🫶🏼 :
I feel this so heavily
2026-07-27 23:12:59
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meli22057
meli :
How was your MS after you delivered?
2026-07-28 16:55:26
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beeecov
Bianca :
I feel this to my core!
2026-07-28 12:59:49
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pangelique2
Priscilla :
Tried to dm you bt I couldn’t due to your settings, but yes it could get so busy with little ones it takes up most of free time, feeling the same with my 2mo old 😬
2026-07-31 18:50:49
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vhorvath702
Vee702 :
Completely in this boat. My baby is 7 weeks and I have my mom to help me 24/7 as she lives with me but I still don’t have time! I really don’t know how single or SAHM moms do it without any help whatsoever
2026-08-23 20:17:12
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