@lifeinfocuswithsuttida: When you’ve already had the same conversation over and over again and nothing changes believe what they are doing. And know that distance in silence will reveal what the relationship really is. #HealingJourney #relationships #friends #selfrespect #innerwork
Going to have to save this and rewatch it every day 🥺
2026-07-29 21:30:14
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Christopher 🌀✨ :
I had enough of a lack of communication. Dating an avoidant was the most challenging thing I've ever done.
2026-07-28 13:15:43
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highly_sensitive_person :
This has been so freeing for me! I used to think it was honorable to stay committed until resolve was reached. To ‘see’ them even if they didn’t ’see’ me. However, honoring myself enough to clearly state my standards and needs while letting the cards fall where they may, has given me peace where I once felt duty. I trust that what is revealed is the honest truth. I let go of the responsibility for fixing a relationship or ensuring that I am understood. I’m open to repair, and will be constructive if an opening presents, but I do not need to convince anyone to work at the relationship with me.
2026-07-28 13:28:17
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Harvest :
“It removes your participation from the pattern.” 💯
2026-07-28 09:31:22
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Lloyd Erik Dillard :
Distance is powerful! 💯
2026-07-29 12:26:03
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BowieTheFrenchie :
I haven’t spoken to him in a month 😩 I asked him “am I not being clear? Is there another way I can relay this message?” He said no I’ve been clean but yet everytime he said he understood and would stop but his actions showed something else
2026-07-28 02:07:35
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user6497654352726 :
More disappointment doesn’t change because you want it too 😳
2026-07-28 04:35:40
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Saul Agüero :
Thank you
2026-07-29 16:45:49
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derekaw :
A lack of capacity means they can’t do the thing, they don’t know about capacity because they don’t have the capacity to do that. You don’t expect a cup to hold more than physics allows. If they don’t have capacity you need to look at where you are aiming, if it’s outside their capacity you have an opportunity to make the relationship better, they can’t do it because they don’t have the capacity.
2026-07-28 10:01:13
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🥚👰🏻♀️🥚melanieee :
But I love him
2026-07-28 07:57:42
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Aaron Christopher Es :
what do you do when they are shadowing you, which creates confusion on self?
2026-07-27 23:36:24
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lissa :
Now it’s my fault because I chose to have peace & stopped trying to explain. 🥴
2026-07-28 04:03:22
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asianmojo :
This. Thank you. I’ve been in this cycle of talking so he will understand me.
2026-07-28 15:37:53
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Bondimb3001 :
I had to leave. She will never get it.
2026-07-28 13:57:07
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Bobby Moriarty | Coach :
Yes! I always say to have the conversation before the distance, but at a certain point if you’re not getting anywhere, there’s really no choice
2026-07-28 01:49:11
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user409226680461 :
spot on 😎😎😎
2026-07-27 23:49:24
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Demeter🌾 :
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you
2026-07-28 17:37:34
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SoCal Dog Life :
Thiiiis
2026-07-28 18:00:37
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Sena :
on point....as always
2026-07-28 04:08:21
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monicajclay🎨 :
It gets sooooo boring! 🥱
2026-07-28 01:08:50
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spankieit :
amen 🙌
2026-07-28 04:02:22
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Gus :
what don't you understand was weaponized by my narc parents growing up, it's so useful tho
2026-07-28 04:10:56
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Cat J | PhD :
Mine ghosted, abandoned, and used a lawyer (in other words, no conversation) and distance is still better.
2026-07-28 15:18:48
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Kim Diesel :
If conversations especially repeated ones do not change the behavior, distance won’t magically fix it either. They may be anxious that you’re pulling away and there’s actual consequences to their lack of accountability now, but once you get back into your “normal routine” that mask falls off and you’re back to square one. You can’t teach lack of accountability. If someone has no integrity, that’s it. Case closed
2026-07-29 19:50:13
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