@relationalalchemy: Most of us were taught that if we just think hard enough, we’ll figure out our relationships. It doesn’t work. There is another way. As Harvard researcher Timothy Wilson puts it: “The conscious mind can process about 40 bits of information per second. The unconscious mind processes approximately 11 million bits per second.” There is a second way of knowing. When you learn to step out of constant analysis and into awareness, your body begins to reveal what your mind couldn’t see. You don’t become less intelligent. You become capable of perceiving far more. That’s where intuition, clarity, and real transformation begin. #relationships #attachmentstyle #HealingJourney #selfawareness #nervoussystem