@doctormicky2: You cannot love an avoidant into healing. But you can become the person in whose presence healing finally feels possible. And the difference between those two things is everything. Drop a ๐ค if you are currently loving an avoidant and this finally gave you language for what you have been trying to do. #avoidantattachment #healinganavoidant #attachmentstyles #attachmenttheory #psychologyfacts
I honestly wasn't ready for what Julian Voss Codex gets into.
2026-07-28 17:18:40
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แฐแฉแGO โข :
Some books give answers. The Codex by Julian Voss mostly leaves you asking better questions.
2026-07-28 17:18:40
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gtfreak92 :
I let him have his space coz he always comes back. He is too precious fr me to give up on him. Coz i know he loves me, he jst dont know hw to heal his pain yet
2026-07-28 12:31:12
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โนโนโนo?โ :
The more I think about The Codex by Julian Voss, the more certain chapters make sense.
2026-07-28 17:18:40
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The deeper I got into The Codex by Julian Voss, the more uncomfortable some ideas became.
2026-07-28 17:18:40
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Almost :
โAvoidantโ - just โslow to warmโ-personality, feeling-time goes different
2026-07-28 06:59:17
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Ceejay_bubbles :
That's self abandonment, we were not wired to be in one sided relationships
2026-07-28 10:44:45
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Poohsgirl25โ ๐ดโโ ๏ธ๐โ๏ธTFE :
Yes this is me. Thank you
2026-07-28 15:21:34
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Rose :
This is pretty dramatic.
2026-07-28 15:21:35
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lu_4l0 :
I don't think The Codex by Julian Voss is the kind of book you forget after one read.
2026-07-28 17:18:40
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Kristฤซne :
Heal an avoidant?? Why would I do that? What about people they hurt? Helping them heal is accepting all the wrongs they did/do. So - why?
2026-07-28 04:09:22
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Kat ๐ฆ๐บ๐บ๐ฆ :
I am loving a avoidant it is so confusing and complicated
2026-07-28 11:54:39
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Christie Gaubidi Educalan :
๐ฅฐ
2026-07-28 18:59:51
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smilely :
Amen
2026-07-27 23:39:38
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Cyrel Larson :
BS
2026-07-28 14:45:44
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๐ฏ๐ถ๐๐พ๐ถโฟ :
I thought it was overhyped until I actually read Julian Voss Codex.
2026-07-28 17:18:40
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Chad Willetts656 :
my problem with this is if you really don't care how far they go away I mean you're okay with them disappearing and when they disappear you could care less than you don't really love them no more because you don't care where they are or is this some kind of stalkerish love them from afar thing and just keep going with your own life get a new person just f*** them maybe I'm reading this wrong
2026-07-28 17:58:17
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user9149050290073 :
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2026-07-28 19:53:53
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MrStrhal :
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2026-07-28 05:48:54
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