And either way it’s a problem - if you don’t chase they will think you don’t care and if you do they lose respect and act as if someone is too much for them- a test set up for failure so they can self sabotage and blame the other person
2026-07-28 00:26:55
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who care 🐂 :
I’m tired. I just want to be loved man.
2026-07-28 23:34:29
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Karla Boone :
ghosting me after hanging out with me is a problem
2026-07-28 00:29:41
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Unapologetically_Caribbean :
Wild. I'm not chasing, checking, or doing any of the above. I'll ask God to release me from the connection, send one final message, and BLOCK...for LIFE. I've experienced a cheater, a narcissist, and an avoidant. I'm choosing peace every time.
2026-07-28 02:39:48
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Andrew :
But are we supposed to chase is the question or leave it be
2026-07-28 00:03:53
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nataliegarnett375 :
Exhausting!!!
2026-07-29 00:41:01
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Hopelizabeth123 :
do not deal with these people please love yourself more than this person whos hurting you
2026-07-28 02:20:33
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aestheticallyplea10 :
Yes happened to me. Learned to move on it’s manipulative behavior
2026-07-28 01:46:30
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yaboy.qube :
Pretty sure I’m going through this right now 😭
2026-07-28 20:34:14
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callie :
The games are not worth it
2026-07-28 22:36:33
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ghost :
i need some insight on my case if anyone can help. my avoidant ex blocked me on social media after a month and a half after the 1 sided breakup. i only sent them 1 text right before that. not a chase, just something calm and stating intentions to talk with no pressure. never got a reply. this silence is eating at me like crazy. i didn't even do anything wrong i thought I was being a good boyfriend. please help!
2026-07-28 08:16:36
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🍓 :
So they don’t want you to chase but also don’t want you to leave? How tf are we supposed to navigate that? What is even the difference? How does not chasing, yet not leaving, even look like????
2026-07-28 17:01:58
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𝒩𝒾𝓃𝒾💋 :
No its not its called controlling behavior and once tou establish that boundary they ego is broken for the first time 😂 they need help
2026-07-28 20:09:31
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Elliot :
Does this happen in friendships because I fear it’s happening in one of mine, I’ve tried texting and calling but they don’t reply, we are online friends and they just went cold overnight, I know people just leave as “shit happens” but I don’t understand that and want them in my life. I feel so lost
2026-07-28 12:32:25
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Tati :
I do this actually
2026-07-28 01:00:36
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AnonymissUzer :
1000% true! You can’t chase, get reactive, get demanding, be pushy, you just have to be an emotional rock that can’t be bothered!!!
2026-07-28 03:24:31
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brittneybryant615 :
So do we chase do we panic what are we supposed to do
2026-07-28 02:22:49
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✵𝔗𝔲 𝔓𝔞𝔭𝔦✵ :
That’s not fair tho.
2026-07-28 20:24:11
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Angel_Dust :
It happened to me cuz I was the FA lol I was young, I thought that If it was real love then they would stay no matter what... He did, but I then realized how drained he was. I went to therapy and worked on it, we broke up several years later for other reasons but I still feel shame for what I did
2026-07-28 03:30:25
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Alexa Marie Cortez :
i just have trust issues cs ik how it feels to be on the receiving end
2026-07-28 02:33:44
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Genesis :
story of my life… but he’s messing up MY nervous system. by simply being an avoidant!
2026-07-28 11:55:21
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Richmond Perfume :
Fearful avoidants are the worst lol. Even Dismissive’s are easier to manage
2026-07-28 06:47:47
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Sierra :
This was so unfair to him.
2026-07-28 18:20:39
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Queen Motion 👑 :
Naw they just are not interested in you
2026-07-28 03:28:59
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👁️👄👁️ :
I tried this and they still pushed me away. I ain't doing allat shit
2026-07-28 17:22:51
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