@starting.over.at.57: I Married the Wrong Person I knew almost immediately. I just didn’t have the courage to admit it. That decision cost me years of my life. Comment “I’m in” if you’ve ever ignored what you knew deep down. #StartingOverAt57 #Marriage #GenX #StartingOver #LifeLessons

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gonnaberichrealsoon
Globalman :
I did the same thing for 45 years.. YES 45 years, I knew it was wrong but couldn’t get out of my own way and leave until 3 months ago
2026-08-01 22:53:00
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mbclemons
Greys4Days :
the goal posts kept moving. first I supported and helped him get his green card. I thought once he has that, everything will be in order and we can start building a life together. but then he wanted to go to vocational school. okay, so I worked two jobs so he could go to school. he got a job after he graduated and I thought okay NOW we can start building a life together. nope. then he wanted to get hits contractor's license. again, I worked extra and supported him through that. once he got the license, I was like okay that's it. we're good. now we can start our life. NOPE! he started his own business and I rarely saw him. meanwhile, all my hopes, dreams, and goals were sidelined. whenever I wanted to work towards something for myself, I was met with nagging about the time and money spent. I left him 4 years ago and had to start over. but now I've been working towards my goals again. I've picked up old, rusty skills and I'm practicing and learning to achieve my lifelong dream. it's gonna take at least 6 years, but that's okay. no one is in my way any more.
2026-08-02 02:44:53
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paranoid_activity
Darlene.N.Eberle :
I was young...he was older....We lasted 15 years 😔....7 kids and I grew up in the marriage and realized he was THE WRONG GUY......😔 I felt like I was taken advantage of 😲
2026-08-01 23:19:58
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el_figue
el_figue :
She sold me a version of herself that disappeared the same wedding night…..
2026-08-01 22:19:33
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saraklassen6
saraklassen6 :
I married the wrong person for 52 years big regrets
2026-08-01 21:58:40
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santiesantiness
Santie Santiness💥 :
Exactly! I'm almost 40 and never married. I didn't want to marry wrong. God showed me in 2009 who I should marry. And I'm not getting married if it's not that guy. There is a much longer story to this than this.
2026-08-02 05:38:05
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cynthiapaquachon
Cindy's Beadwork :
There is a reason I saw this today. Im beginning to realize that a person will be miserable regardless of what you do.
2026-08-01 23:45:36
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catluver_001
wendy :
yep , married the wrong one 13 yrs ago, still in it , never been happy
2026-08-01 12:28:59
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donnaestes2
NotThisTime ❌ :
Marriage is an expensive sham
2026-08-01 12:44:23
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meanoldmoe12
meanoldmoe1 🇨🇦 :
funny how they are a certain way b4 marriage....and after they totally change
2026-08-01 22:26:27
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boomzy010
Crafts by Bomzila. :
Im starting over @ 43.i was married for 14yrs.
2026-08-01 18:38:56
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salma.2325
💕Salma💕 :
Me too the first year is the best test to decide not to waste 26 years
2026-08-01 22:56:05
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alexlauzon91
alex lauzon C :
You are in big trouble if you marry the wrong person. A huge set back in life.
2026-08-01 20:50:19
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kimmybeau1
KimmyB :
Same for me. 24 years of sadness. I stayed - he passed away last month. The guilt, sadness, regret, and peace is horrible
2026-08-02 04:52:35
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don89837
Nova. :
sorry sir.You can always start over.
2026-08-01 18:05:00
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goldengreek1964
Mr To You :
you cant take back time, dont do it again
2026-08-01 23:00:36
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valhalla635
Boo :
I.ll never marry ahain.
2026-08-01 23:44:19
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nyatho43
Nyatho :
Thanks Eric
2026-08-01 21:04:34
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boomzy010
Crafts by Bomzila. :
Afraid people will mock me, & i will have to admit that i failed!
2026-08-01 18:35:34
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johnmoore90085
John Moore90085 :
cause were fixers.
2026-08-01 20:40:35
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ksal2025
K skeej22 :
I agree with you ....but a big reason why people stay together is not wanting to be alone , for the kids, and the potential loss of material wealth & possesions.
2026-08-01 17:07:10
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scottyb64
scottyb64 :
Yep - all so the kids wouldn’t reject me..😔😔
2026-08-02 00:00:42
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nicom_drawing
NicoM :
do you have children
2026-08-01 13:00:49
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queen.of.hearts559
Queen of Hearts 💕 :
the first wrong person you are decieved by is yourself. If you don't know who you are everyone you meet will just be wrong.. know yourself first.
2026-08-02 02:57:11
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durdanasays
Durdana Says :
Ditto I knew but didn't listen to those nudging thoughts and that decision changed my life on a trajectory I never really recovered from although I left him after 2 yrs. when I look back I can't imagine I made that choice.
2026-08-01 23:20:50
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