@bustuh: What was the accident? #cheating #discernment #relationships #cheater #attachmentstyle

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skrtskrt182
Rusty Shackleford :
cheating should be a felony.
2026-08-01 02:23:55
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callmecandyb
Call Me Candy :
May this reach his algorithm 💕 but it’s all in Gods plan
2026-08-24 18:26:37
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worldwide_ak
AK :
Cheating is never a mistake or accident
2026-07-30 01:20:48
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just_jess_things1
Jessica Sharp 💖 :
It’s a CHOICE! A mistake is not intentional…I hate when they say it was a mistake…especially when it’s over and over again
2026-07-31 21:01:45
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cryinginmyhondacivic
B :
his fyp not mine
2026-08-01 16:04:35
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keldoestatts
atl tattoo artist 📍 :
The timing is actually crazy. Like this is exactly the video I needed to walk away. Thank you 👌🏼
2026-07-29 00:50:00
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isaiahhughes91
Isaiah Hughes :
Mistakes and accidents are not the same thing. Mistakes are a choice made that was the wrong choice. An accident is something that happens that you don’t have control over. Cheating is a mistake. And it is a choice. But it is not an accident.
2026-08-01 22:06:06
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e_mayne
6’5 User :
There’s so many steps involved in cheating it’s never a mistake
2026-08-01 17:31:37
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jussooriginal05
JusSoOriginal :
I never give second chances and the first and last time I chose to give a second chance and tried to be patient with him.. he still chose that other person. I feel stupid asf. No accountability on their end just silence smh
2026-07-28 00:20:18
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n_rozy1
rozy ❤️ :
he told me he was just selfish
2026-07-28 10:43:30
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jaymosqi
Sam_Rock 👑 :
Quick question pls, if it were a long distance relationship and I only happened to find out from her phone when she traveled to my end, after constantly suspecting things were shady from a distance, would the long distance validate it? I mean when I confronted her, she got physically violent because I entered her phone and further told me that she’s a woman and so I should have known she had feelings. Mind you, I traveled to study and no, we are not married. This happened in April, 2025. Fast forward to date and we are still riding together, I’ve come back after completing studies 7 months ago. I am thinking of ending things after her birthday next month because I don’t think I can ever trust her even if she avoids male interactions because I may still feel deceived. However, I feel guilty because I have given her the impression that we have moved past that since last year. Lastly, I wonder how different anybody’s advice would be supposing I did same too whilst there, difference is I would not have become violent if I got caught sneaking around, and justified my behavior. On top of this, she has been expecting a proposal ever since I got back and I just can’t. The foundation of the relationship is shaky. Been dating for 3 years, spent only 8 months of that physically present with her (since 2026 January)
2026-07-29 17:38:37
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latashajordan35
demjordanz :
ma'am this is hitting home real good and he's saying stop bringing up the past, but he's still sneaking
2026-08-03 09:56:25
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kaybeeisnotok
Kaybee Campagna :
if cheating was punishable by law, i think we'd see WAYYYY less of it
2026-08-03 22:55:00
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marlin.rainey4
Marlin Rainey :
Definitely a choice…
2026-08-01 18:59:48
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chef_tai
Chef👨🏾‍🍳 :
“People will climb mountains to cheat but not repair the relationship “
2026-08-11 15:56:52
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marianos134
Marianos :
The government needs to do something about cheaters
2026-08-01 23:04:12
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lesetoiles000
Habibi :
You are correct… I will never forgive him for his actions and decision’s … he thought he could keep it a secret from me and planned on never telling me … he said “well I dint want to hurt you ..” WHATTT???? Sounds a little like cognitive dissonance … I had to play detective and then he tells people “ I broke into his phone ..” No, no, I used the password he gave me and after that he stepped up his deceit by moving to what’s app to cover his texts and then adding additional passwords .. keeping his phone with him 24/7 … but yea, I broke into his phone… He went to ALOT of effort to hide his affair, but I’m supposed to believe he loves me???? 🙄
2026-07-28 10:06:02
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izzy.girlcode
Izzy :
the “it was a mistake” line is doing SO much work for so little effort lol like a mistake is forgetting someone’s birthday or sending a text to the wrong person, not months of lying, deleting messages, and covering your tracks. if it takes planning, timing, and a cover story it wasnt a slip it was a decision you got caught making.
2026-08-01 09:13:14
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courtneyop
C :
And literally doing all the things for her I was begging him to do for me
2026-07-28 22:43:25
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cabronsitaaa
Dela 🥀 :
Worst part is, he kept talking to her. Brought her to my house then tried to tell me he didn’t know her.
2026-07-31 22:45:34
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sexchell0kittyfein
sexchell0kittyfein :
Yes👏🏻 Time has passed and he keeps trying to get me back now but the trust is so broken I wouldn’t believe if he told me a brick was hard 😂😭
2026-08-01 10:19:18
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jojobee223
Jo :
It was a choice. A devastating choice that they did not care to think about how it would affect me.
2026-08-01 23:27:17
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skeleton_girl7
skeleton_girl :
Idk why anyone would want someone else in a relationship it pisses me off
2026-08-02 04:28:33
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riawait
riawait :
People choose what they want to do. So cheating is not a mistake! Especially if you knew you were doing it
2026-08-01 21:34:40
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n_rozy1
rozy ❤️ :
you will learn the hard way. just make sure you aren't loving an avoidant
2026-07-28 10:41:07
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