Sam_Rock 👑 :
Quick question pls, if it were a long distance relationship and I only happened to find out from her phone when she traveled to my end, after constantly suspecting things were shady from a distance, would the long distance validate it? I mean when I confronted her, she got physically violent because I entered her phone and further told me that she’s a woman and so I should have known she had feelings. Mind you, I traveled to study and no, we are not married. This happened in April, 2025. Fast forward to date and we are still riding together, I’ve come back after completing studies 7 months ago. I am thinking of ending things after her birthday next month because I don’t think I can ever trust her even if she avoids male interactions because I may still feel deceived. However, I feel guilty because I have given her the impression that we have moved past that since last year. Lastly, I wonder how different anybody’s advice would be supposing I did same too whilst there, difference is I would not have become violent if I got caught sneaking around, and justified my behavior. On top of this, she has been expecting a proposal ever since I got back and I just can’t. The foundation of the relationship is shaky. Been dating for 3 years, spent only 8 months of that physically present with her (since 2026 January)
2026-07-29 17:38:37