@big.xab: African father are not Emotionally there for their Kids, How true?? #justiceforfathers #lagos #500k @VividbossTV

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chyvine19
Chyvine19 :
Most people won't even understand what he is saying because many people don’t even know what emotional support is in the first place. I will advice men to take what he said seriously
2026-07-29 11:03:12
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fyhnman_007
fyhnmann :
:what about father's hustling risking his life to take care of u and his family no times to rest for him who will then give the man emotional support, na WA ooo this generation of people everyone is just selfish no one care about other people struggle 😁☺️😊
2026-07-29 09:38:49
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linussunday620
Linus Sunday Abraham :
how will your father gives u emotional support wen he work 18hours everyday....and ur mama dey with u always
2026-07-28 20:14:04
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troblemangh
Troblemangh :
When he become a father he will understand how is dad try for him
2026-07-28 06:22:06
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kenzuby1
kenzuby1 :
just look at wat a grown up man is saying
2026-07-28 10:52:37
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stanleychukwu0
Stanley Chukwu607 :
at times our mothers are the cause of this, they don't present our fathers well on our face..
2026-07-28 10:31:58
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tewoleprosper
dark 🌑 soul 🙂‍↕️💔 :
this guy dey vex me
2026-07-28 13:27:08
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bignatty14_
BigNatty :
and which time would you expect him to show emotional support.? when he's out trying to find food for the family.?? Omo
2026-07-28 06:24:30
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richie.akwaba
Akwalux 🖌️🎨 :
Everybody dey say the guy nor dey Right. but truth b told most father's don't really knows abt Emotional part of their son's life. paying bills doesn't says it all, How many tyms as a father u sit Ur son down to ask him how is life is going . how many tyms have u asked dem abt their relationship. How many tyms have u called out Ur son to go out with them treat dem as a friend. talk to dem abt life. money nor b everything. Call Ur kids Asking dem how dey are doing it helps build their emotions. most fathers always treat their son in the hard way . U wen dey Criticise these guy if u are above 18 ask Urself wen was the last time Ur father hold Ur hands the way he use to hold u wen u bellow 10 years of age .
2026-07-28 13:40:06
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hattie5064
Hattie :
See all the men in the comments failing to understand him. Providing alone can’t be all you do. You chose to have kids so providing there needs is not an accomplishment. The distinguisher to the child is the relationship and emotional bond you build with them. There are single parents out there doing both and so saying the emotional side is for the woman isn’t good enough. No amount of material things can equate to the genuine love felt by a child from their parents!
2026-07-28 22:08:10
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morelovelessego1998
MORE LOVE LESS EGO 💋 :
providing alone is the best emotional support for a child
2026-07-28 10:39:06
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blackwal02
BLACKWAL :
Trust me if you really dey find money you’ll never be emotionally available
2026-07-28 09:51:46
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zyontec.global.co0
ZYONTEC GLOBAL CONCEPT :
he will understand wen he become one
2026-07-28 19:32:07
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ucheking16
Ucheking :
Chai, this simply truly proves that not all adults are wise.
2026-07-28 15:18:26
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onyiaobianukor
Varimax Interiors :
as my papa dey wake 6am, dey come back house 9pm ....him go come give me emotional?
2026-07-29 02:14:42
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iam_shaycrown
Shay Crown :
am surprise a man is saying this the question u should ask him is 1. is there a time and chance for the emotional support 2. if he decide to always be there for emotional support, will he have time to be able to do what he did to u 3. do u go to him for the emotional Support, u can't expect someone that is hardly at home but out there working out something for the family to know
2026-07-28 08:01:55
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jadeejdest
Jadeejdest :
I can never sacrifice all I have for my kid poo myself first
2026-07-28 09:31:26
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chuksauto4
CHUKS AUTO :
I love the fact that you're man no worry
2026-07-28 09:13:56
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mhiz__.ella
mhiz__ ella :
Emotional support is different from providing for your needs, emotional support is having heart to heart conversations with your children from time to time.
2026-07-28 19:53:32
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wissycares1
wisdom :
He said alot without saying anything. He keeps calling emotional support,define explain??? Emotional support 😹😹 I think d guy is confused ✌️..
2026-07-28 18:25:55
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shopepe12
INVEST WITH FOLADAM :
You are suppse to ask him if he is a father yet. The pressure of been a father take away some part of you.
2026-07-28 13:45:10
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seasons83_
SEASONS :
the feeling u get when giving out the last money in your pocket to the family is emotional my brother.
2026-07-28 09:28:48
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aoa.dynamic.plumb
AKANBI OLAMILEKAN ATANDA :
that's y I'm trying my best to balance thing's quickly... since my daughter arrived sometimes na 2 to 3 day's i dey go hustle... she won't sleep without seeing me even if I went to work and b4 i went to work she's awake on my chest... I'm doing all dis because my dad is dere 💯 but I recognise my dad when I was 10 or 11 year's old because I never saw him when I wake nor saw him b4 I sleep... sometimes I will park my car and carried or back.my daughter and stroll my area most women understand but most men look me some kinda weird ways... iya emotional support jemi lodo baba mi , mio le fi je omo temi... OKIKIOLA TEMI NIKAN🥰🥰🥰..... father's men spend time with ur kid's we ain't birth on earth to work work work pay bills and just die... spend time with ur kid's...
2026-07-28 19:50:19
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taofeekllah
Ibn AbduRhaman Yusuf :
he will soon understand 😂 someone who is out there to make a better life for his family and you expect him to be available for any emotional support. the wife of a man should be the one to defend father base on emotional support for their kids. the woman also have a big impact in this. anytime our father pays our school fee my mom will say go and prostate and say thank you to your dad.
2026-07-28 07:25:11
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