@dylandeckislost: 152 - 6 things to understand to improve the quality and depth of your relationships! Based on research my John and Julie Gottman, they have been doing research on relationships for years so please do check them out! #psychology #Relationship #attachment #gottman #connection
And the KEY to these 5 things is to find a person that is WILLING and WANTING to grow with you and figure it out togethe💞
2026-07-28 21:36:43
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ana banana :
What are the 6 questions?!
2026-07-28 19:33:57
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highly_sensitive_person :
This is why I bring up concerns and incongruities as early as I sense them in a new relationship. I’m able to quickly assess whether the other has the capacity to work with me through effective conflict resolution – or against me. It reveals how they respond to challenge or to something they may not prefer along with how emotionally and logically sound they are. It is the most efficient way I currently know to measure the potential of a possible healthy relationship.
2026-07-28 16:12:27
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tea :
Curiosity, compassion, connection! Love love love
2026-07-30 06:25:24
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rossel282 :
when the 2 people has completely different values, it seems like relationship won't be able to work.
2026-07-28 13:49:29
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Quiet Revolutionary :
It's also important to acknowledge that different people have a different capacity and comfort level for depth in relationships, based on what they grew up with as examples and what they were taught. Unless someone does a fair bit of self-reflection paired with adaptive action, personal growth beyond early life patterns comes more often from crisis than voluntarily. Everyone is trying their best generally, but not everyone wants the same things, or relationships.
This is still stellar advice by the Gottmans for talking guidelines to figure out what you each and both want though. Their techniques are effective.
2026-07-28 20:12:29
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holly :
Def recommend this book by Gottman!!!
2026-07-28 14:21:37
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Heidi Groves :
It doesn't matter how much I try to explain or sort things out he doesn't listen to me. He doesn't accept when he's in the wrong, everything is my fault. Even when I do something good, he'll focus on the negative. 😭
2026-09-13 15:54:40
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Vivalamilliee :
I watched the 4 horsemen happen and still tried to fix it, 0/10 don’t recommend ❤️🩹
2026-07-28 09:16:28
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jenhasgoodtaste :
Eye rolling is saying I’m better than you? More like frustration
2026-07-29 03:05:31
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compinmisfortune :
What are the 6 questions
2026-07-28 16:07:57
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kekeslim :
i’ve never wanted to listen to a podcast before, but if you made one I’d be eager
2026-07-29 03:08:09
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sophia garcia :
Goated advice
2026-07-28 15:15:03
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Tyler🤍 :
Listening to this bc I want this relationship to work
2026-08-01 03:38:24
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Awan🤍Mkhathini :
Makes a lot of sense, timely too
2026-07-29 07:51:43
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big_bubbaaaa :
I love the Gottmans! Learn to fight well ❤️
2026-07-28 19:39:02
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Famouss | Jewel Dropper :
What are the 6 questions?
2026-07-29 06:20:21
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McKinley :
The second one just changed my perspective lol
2026-07-30 04:13:43
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⭐️ Marie Vlastar :
This is so beautifully explained 💛 thank you for sharing
2026-07-29 21:11:53
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Fierybelly :
My husband routinely puts me down in front of our friends. 🥴
2026-07-29 04:01:42
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Maddy Mellor :
Can you give some examples of the 6 questions so we can adapt these for our own conversations?
2026-08-01 02:11:54
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hotterandwiser :
yes king
2026-07-30 14:47:59
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Ayla :
remind me
2026-07-30 08:31:38
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emiliaisplaces :
Perfect
2026-07-29 22:24:13
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