@freemumba75: This is just my perspective, and I'd genuinely love to hear yours. 💍 Should a daughter's education influence the bride price, or should bride price remain a cultural expression of appreciation and respect rather than a way of recovering the cost of raising a child? Let's keep the conversation respectful. We all come from different families, cultures, and experiences, and there's something we can learn from each other. #teachingontiktok #madammumba #fypシ #zambiantiktok🇿🇲
I love how well spoken you are. and your reasoning ☺️☺️☺️
2026-07-29 12:44:00
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morgan Kangwa :
I think I just found my bana bukombe.
coz this is powerful and educational to the younger generation.
2026-07-29 13:24:52
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sha drick :
My the almighty God bless and protect you mother ❤️🙏
2026-07-29 07:47:41
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tommyleeuse :
Our madam speaks
2026-07-29 04:00:44
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Tindo’s magical touch :
K5000 was allot of money in your time weah 🥺
2026-07-29 07:08:20
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CLY :
The only reason my grandma set my bride price at K7000 is so that she could return their money easily if ever they mistreated me 😂😂😂😂
2026-07-29 07:56:50
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Rosa Ayla :
Mine was charged 100.000. they bargained and paid 80k. Mind you, this is my second marriage. my first husband in 2019 paid 50k. 😭
2026-07-29 10:08:21
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Nana kayz :
26pin🤣🤣🤣🤣 but my guy never bargained.. following day a family meeting was called dad was like i feel we should reduce the pride price.. some agreed some didn't.but after he paid 50% dad told him to start marriage preparations n my man was happy..we got married n after some months he went thr to pay something towards the Balance.dad got the money n told my man to say what he had paid was enough..he was shocked.. following week mum inlaw visted my parents with an appreciation basket.
2026-07-28 17:39:13
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Mwewa :
Protect this woman at all cost
2026-07-28 20:08:52
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kayChibale :
that's exactly what my father told me ati you're not for sale he charged k14000 damage plus marriage 😂😂😂
2026-07-28 12:50:20
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sungu <3 :
I dont think I’ve ever fully understood the concept of lobola. As in yes, it’s meant to appreciate the work put into raising your daughter but I’ve always just found it odd, you know? I’ve always believed it would be better if both families came together and agree on a fixed amount to give to the newly wed couple to start their life, instead of it going to the bride’s family. But that’s just my opinion.
2026-07-28 20:47:21
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kalongopearsonkal :
Brotherhood is proud of you mum.
Let's protect her by all cost
2026-07-29 07:29:08
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Beauty Malichi :
Mine was charged 50 pin I tried to talk to them Ati umwaume tabamulandila huh it was a battle mwe 🤦
2026-07-28 17:16:48
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Tissa💕 :
this is my father's theory actually
2026-07-28 18:17:46
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lady reen🦋🩷 :
so meaning mine 😳have sold me off 40pin and he wants 6kids I have not even started one😏
2026-07-28 17:18:00
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Nachi💕 :
I am following you because you talk sense
GOD bless you
2026-07-28 13:01:57
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Ndanji :
my father changed him k12,000,,,and said we're creating a family
2026-07-28 14:40:24
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blessedgal :
Mine was charged 5pin too ,in 2010 almost 16 yrs in marriage with 3 beautiful kids ..he took me to school for 4 yrs i was just a grade 12 .
2026-07-28 19:53:41
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Thandiwe Mweetwa :
Your Father is very wise. 🙌He still understands the real intention of pride price. Despite what people may have thought, it sent a strong message.When my uncle was alive, he never demanded anything for all the girls he married off. He just emphasised that all he wanted was for his daughters and nieces to be treated well and that if the marriage collapsed the husband shouldn't hesitate to return them. It was the greatest act of love.
2026-07-29 04:38:49
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myfathersbaby2 :
Those are my dear mother’s words and if I tell you I’m her only girl child the rest 3 are male she always says she will not sell me …
2026-07-28 17:25:03
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zoe zakani 105 :
honestly this is so true, I know someone who is affected because of these same issues of big sums of money as refund for lobola, and with all do respect to all the parents they should reduce twapapata otherwise they won't marry us
2026-07-28 13:28:23
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