@christinagalbato: the hardest thing to learn to do as an emotionally intelligent, empathetic woman

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lovebugalfiche
lovebugalfiche 🤍 :
And let me tell you, THEY ALWAYS COME BACK!!!!! 😭
2026-07-28 22:57:12
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leeloomultipass242
Cina :
my avoidance circled back 3 weeks after I broke up with them!! that was quick..I'm blamiing it on 50% myself and 50% on Saturn retrograde
2026-07-29 14:17:13
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olive.1719
olive :
being an empath is so painful 😫 when you know the person isn't actually a bad person but their timeline isn't aligned with yours
2026-07-28 13:04:45
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ynahreyn
ynah :
💯 detachment is the key, everything is just an experience, attachment is suffering
2026-07-29 02:57:20
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kaymertle
kaymertle :
Especially alcoholics, drug addicts and narcissists.
2026-07-29 04:12:23
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differentdepths
differentdepths :
I agree. The only thing I’d add is that you shouldn’t expect people to circle back. And never put your life on hold waiting for someone - you lose too much valuable time hoping someone eventually chooses you.
2026-07-28 19:35:49
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sarissling
sawhitford :
I’m an empath with ADHD. It’s a blessing and a curse. I see the good in people and am incredibly forgiving but pick up on patterns instantly. When they don’t get it, it enrages me.
2026-07-29 13:35:14
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christycatastrophe
iamginja :
I blocked him after giving him 3 chances to make things right. Too much time wasted..
2026-07-29 14:12:49
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tsay__26
tsay_26 :
I was the one who chose silence. I left him on read and stepped back. Two weeks later, I'm okay. That space gave me time to reflect, heal, and, most importantly, remember the respect and value I owe myself. Looking back, I don't think he was really at fault. We were simply two adults wanting different things, and that's okay. Not every connection is meant to become a relationship. So instead of holding on to resentment, I choose gratitude. Thank you for the experience, and I genuinely wish him well. To my fellow girls, it's all about perspective. If your values and goals don't align, don't become bitter. Give yourself the gift of time. Reflect, enjoy your own life, and let your emotions settle. You'll begin to see more clearly where you truly belong. Love yourself enough to walk away from what's not meant for you—not because you lost, but because you know your worth. Sometimes, the greatest act of self-love is choosing peace over chasing something that was never meant to fit.
2026-07-28 23:03:02
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merlinbalderas
merlin :
a hard lesson i recently went thru
2026-07-29 14:09:30
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_kxmrose
𝒦𝒾𝓂𝒷𝑒𝓇𝓁𝓎❦ :
I had to learn that I can’t force my partner to prioritize me when his main focus in life right now is his gambling addiction. I had to leave after two years. It was a long distance relationship and honestly with his addiction and spending his paychecks gambling and asking me for money, I knew us closing the distance wasn’t going to happen any time soon. And I’m 31 I eventually want to get married and have kids and I just feel like my time is being wasted and I can’t save someone who can’t save themselves.
2026-07-29 14:04:17
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thedana2000
thedana2000 :
I learned this being with an avoidant. Horrible
2026-07-28 15:21:02
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cararossxo
Nacaraxo💕 :
And you don't care when they do circle back. BYE. 🤣
2026-07-29 14:16:18
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dianafarcabooks
Diana Farca :
This is not the flex women think it is. Most men come back because they hope we have weak boundaries. ❤️🙏
2026-07-28 20:09:42
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potatowithchips
potato :
unfortunately it also makes a lot of people want to steal your light because they can’t do it for themselves
2026-07-28 19:43:27
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aynexo
Uppity African :
I completely agree. It took one relationship for me to realize this. Being emotionally intelligent has relaxed my nervous system. Also it allows ppl to SIT with what they did to you…I also live by don’t take what they did PERSONALLY.
2026-07-28 18:40:37
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k.o.a__
k.o.a__ :
My personal experience: they ALWAYS circle back. Accepting them as they are, where they are & moving on with your life is so peaceful.
2026-07-29 01:35:07
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nwfamsep
LANČI⚜️ :
This was a lesson I had to learn!
2026-07-28 12:25:04
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xoxojksn97
✨𝐸𝑏𝑜𝑛𝑦✨ :
I had to learn with my last relationship that it’s not my job to save someone from the consequences of their actions and control or avoid the outcome of the decisions they make.
2026-07-28 22:25:03
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daenco
DAENCO :
THEY ALWAYS CIRCLE BACK… 😂
2026-07-29 06:24:14
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carrrrlz
carrrrlz :
i wasted soooo much time and energy when i was younger trying to guide people to see the light and realize my value and treat me right before they lost me. i can’t be bothered to convince anyone anymore, but it doesn’t make the disappointment sting any less every time someone takes me for granted and then tries to circle back when it’s too far gone for me. i have a graveyard of people who i cared about deeply and could’ve been in my life for a long time had they realized these things in time 😭
2026-07-28 21:36:05
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nyinibib2
Wallflowers ✨ :
Just let people be and that's it
2026-07-28 22:58:25
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clembuttjung
clembuttjung :
I have this right now… Mutual feelings and insane chemistry with a guy but I understand where he is right now, he’s where I was 2 years ago. I’m healing my avoidance, he’s starting. I recognise where he is and it’s peaceful to understand it. Might not happen, but I’d rather that than forcing things to happen and it ending badly.
2026-07-28 21:55:30
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jelly.and.the.bean
Jelly & the Bean :
chemistry and attraction does not equal compatibility. it can give you such energic high that can be soo addicting but that doesnt mean both parties are at the same maturity, emotionally intelligent, communication level. i learned so much about myself from that relationship. instead of fireworks im looking for more of a warm and steady camp fire.
2026-07-29 02:51:47
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thegirlmyesha
My life, my life, my life 🧚🏽 :
I’m exhausted but I’m also thankful for my experiences!
2026-07-29 07:14:45
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