@kattheunpackologist: “You’re so strong” sounds like praise until you notice how often people say it right before leaving you alone with the problem. Sometimes strength is not a compliment. Sometimes it is permission for other people to disappear. #GenXWomen #WomenOver50 #MidlifeWomen #StrongWomen #TheUnpackologist

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wagtail64
Wagtail :
I am experiencing worsening symptoms of my chronic illnesses and my friend said ‘I would like to help BUT I know you are strong and you can handle it’ Geez thanks for nothing🤦🏻‍♀️
2026-07-28 12:54:58
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.itzchrisss._
Kitmyn :
OMG!!!!!!!! Thank you for saying this!!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
2026-07-28 14:42:31
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just.call.me.kat0
x Kat x :
Strength is overrated. I'd rather not need to be strong.
2026-07-28 15:03:26
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kera_mitchell1
Kera Faye’✨🦋 :
Absolutely 💯 the truth!
2026-07-28 14:32:07
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pat59509
Pat :
Wow… you just made me realize that I do take strong as a compliment because I was raised to think that… I look at it as a super power.. thanks for the new perspective
2026-07-28 12:56:48
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reikipackaging
internet stranger :
and now im the bad guy for not entertaining the nonsense anymore. oh well. they have enough problems, ill let them handle their own business and keep staying out of it.
2026-07-28 13:01:46
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mavericksmom47
☘️ADogNamedJesus☘️ :
I never saw this side of it, but you’re absolutely correct. Some people only love your strength because it allows them to be neglectful and emotionally/physically lazy. Thank you for this ♥️♥️♥️🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻
2026-07-28 17:52:37
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pinklily14
Pink Lily14 :
I'm the oldest of 7, these were my mom's words ALL THE TIME
2026-07-28 16:09:47
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happywellglam
HappyWellGlam❌️ :
Wow...just wow. Every video you post is ripping the bandaid off decades of my wounds. 🥺
2026-07-28 13:46:57
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rozgeorge50
Roz George :
Babbbeeeeeeeee 🔥🔥🔥
2026-07-28 12:32:23
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hartfamily5
Lesley Hart :
You are gluing me together right now. Truly.
2026-07-28 12:46:32
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happyplace1223
IMMIA :
Absolutely 💯 This!
2026-07-28 19:47:13
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ariluv336
Ari Kay :
I’m actually not that strong, I just didn’t have a choice but to pretend to be strong. Now that I’m perimenopausal and dealing with chronic illness, I’m REALLY trying not to pretend anymore, but I still have few resources and some friends have distanced themselves. I’m so tired 😪
2026-07-29 01:47:57
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marciablackshire
🌸Marcia Blackshire🌸 :
Girl! Yes!!!
2026-07-28 20:50:26
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every_1s_mom
Jackie❌ :
Yes!!!
2026-07-28 20:29:15
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puptech71
Marcy :
And then something happens that literally breaks you. I crumbled and have yet to figure out how to put myself back together. Perimenopause exacerbated everything. Now, I’m someone who isn’t worth the time or effort.
2026-07-28 20:12:55
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crizzlecoldfoot
Crizzle 🌎 :
A word!😬😎💪 Hope all is well🥰🥰🫶
2026-07-28 16:22:32
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user2579090073080
@mygirl_tj :
G.O.O.D. W.O.R.D. 🙌🏾🔥💯
2026-07-28 21:37:38
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livgrace247
Gracie liv :
I’m exhausted from being strong
2026-07-28 20:52:16
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jodi_gildedalley
Jodi🎪GildedAlley :
So true!! Thank you for putting words to the feeling. 💕💕
2026-07-28 22:09:52
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kenna.riordon
Kenna Riordon :
Very wise words. You’ve gained a new follower 💜
2026-07-29 01:26:38
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woowoogirly29
woowoogirly29 :
Yes. 100% this. When I asked my mother why she never helped me while she helped my siblings, why she never called during my divorce, etc. she said, "You've always been so capable." aka she did not have the bandwidth to be mother to 7 kids, so about 5 of us were neglected under the guise of capability. And I told her so.
2026-07-28 19:35:28
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pattyn325
PattylovesBeauty :
It was when the husband said I was the strongest woman he knew and would be fine to justify abandoning our marriage, friends, family and home that I never let anyone call me the strong one again.🙏
2026-07-28 17:18:26
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nikkigrace.vo
nikkigrace.vo :
🔥
2026-07-28 18:01:48
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ucanbhappy2
UcanBeHappy2 ❌️🧿 :
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
2026-07-28 18:22:28
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