@kinacptsdtherapist: #duet with @RedCoog #therapistsontiktok if coping skills and cognitive restructuring/thought challenging aren’t working for clients, that doesn’t mean they don’t want to change. There are so many angles to consider when people hit a wall with these approaches including understanding the deeper neurobiological underpinnings of trauma, and why trying to force change via different behaviors or thought processes can be ineffective when a persons patterns are stemming from implicit learning. I personally do not use any coping skills or thought reframing in my practice, and that’s not to say no one should use those (they can definitely have a place), but I am saying there are SO many different therapeutic approaches and I would really like to see therapists not blame or shame their clients when the approach they take isn’t working.

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lxtmandy
lxtmandy :
a therapist commented that she gets her clients unstuck by saying "by staying the way you are you are paying my bills. my car is paid, my mortgage is paid, etc etc" and she said thats what usually fires them up???????? and the original therapist who posted that video LIKED HER COMMENT
2026-08-02 18:33:06
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bw_sanctuary
bw_sanctuary :
My hot take is that therapists like the one you’re stitching stop looking at their clients as clients and start projecting their irritation of folks in their lives onto them. Which is why they get so invested + agitated at a lack of change.
2026-07-28 12:55:34
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_mx.rbl
Rbl 🇨🇦🏳️‍🌈 :
What a horrible thing for one of her clients to come across. She also works with CHILDREN. I fired 2 therapists in one year because they barely understood trauma informed
2026-07-28 13:11:57
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embodiedfreedom
Isobel, LCSW | FL & CO :
Unfortunately I went to this profile and saw “school counselor” 😞
2026-07-28 22:31:56
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audgelee
AC :
The comments on her video made my jaw drop. Not only what she’s saying, but what other therapists are comfortable saying there too. It’s wild…... As someone in school for counseling right now, the Code of Ethics is at the forefront of my mind. And “venting” about your clients online is def an ethical dilemma that should be taken seriously!
2026-07-29 21:51:44
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ldonyale
LDonyale :
I have spent a lifetime telling myself something was okay, when it wasn’t, all the physical and mental and seg abuse. I thought if I just changed how I thought and my environment and “mindset” it will be ok. I’m 52 and so detached from myself, I am hyper vigilant, I intellectually catastrophically map everything little thing to be prepared for what can go wrong. I’ve seen quite a few therapist that do this method and I tell them this doesn’t work for me. Then they get irritated and I feel the energy shift right away.
2026-07-28 13:15:51
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thatsandtraytherapist
Hyacinth :
She took it down .... as she should.
2026-07-31 22:14:54
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catftrap
user583138003821 :
thank you. i really appreciate my lovely therapist. i worked hard in that i really try to face up to the realities of my inner world but I never felt i had to force myself to anything. there always came a point at which I felt suddenly ready to do xyz and it only needed a little nudge. I am a totally different p
2026-07-29 20:36:10
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isabelmcarthur123
Isabel McArthur :
Thank you for speaking up. Those therapists on her post shocked me. Wow
2026-07-31 03:52:43
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8aapplecider
playgurl hearti :
i have a question,, since both cptsd and bpd have similar causes and roots, some ppl argue theyre the same diagnosis, and both fall under secondary structural dissocaition, can therapy effective for cptsd be used for bpd? (ifs, coherence, SE, narm, emdr, etc)
2026-07-29 08:23:14
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brimillerofficial
Bri Miller :
I am not even sure what to say… I am a newbie somatic therapist and the amount of energy I have to put into to make sure I am learning and consuming knowledge from the “safe” therapists is insane. And I am not talking about online world….. I am talking about offline world…. Thank you for sharing this!
2026-07-30 16:52:01
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thesusanbrown
Susan Brown :
Thank you. The original video is harmful.
2026-07-29 04:35:22
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user46774661
❀ :
she makes me scared i'll never find a competend therapist like you
2026-07-28 20:31:09
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cellardoorbabe
cellardoor :
Speak on it!👏🏻
2026-07-28 12:57:06
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life_is_reas0n
Easy :
ughhh I LOVE YOU SO MUCH THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS
2026-07-28 18:10:47
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4444ourteen
44ourteen :
LET’S GO
2026-07-28 20:15:15
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_don.don.don_
dondondon :
Oh, you’re good 🤩
2026-07-28 16:42:28
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crystal.clearllc
Kelly Gregory :
100%
2026-07-28 13:18:27
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catherinejones752
Catherine Jones :
This is horrific, and I would bet that she is a therapist who ONLY uses DBT 😂
2026-08-01 12:55:37
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creativemagiqueredux
creativemagiqueredux :
Another reason I’m not doing therapy again as I refuse to be judged by somebody who’s 14 years old.😏
2026-07-31 07:26:43
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sunndays23
Sunnydays :
🎯
2026-07-28 13:02:28
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princesseatspeaso
PrincessEatsPeaSoup :
💯
2026-07-28 13:03:07
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jesskern
Jess :
👏👏👏👏👏
2026-07-28 13:23:40
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