Jefferson Fisher
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Tuesday 28 July 2026 16:12:55 GMT
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user1075605284693 :
You need to add religion and politics to the list.
2026-07-28 19:09:53
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Elsa :
If you ask most women, I don’t think those are the reasons most women divorce.
2026-07-29 02:13:20
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𑣲⋆ :
Okay if you haven't read The Timeless Principles of Life by Aaron Friedman, you're seriously missing out. This one changed my life.
2026-07-30 00:09:28
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Taddie big dude :
Gotta say I think this is complete BS. What matters in a marriage are these 3 things. 1. Flexibility in thinking. 2. Acceptance 3. The more you give, the more you gain!
2026-07-29 15:26:07
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alia_in_europe :
1. Being aligned on money 2. Kids how many to have 3. How to deal with the family 4. Religion
2026-09-24 16:52:37
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Whoisthisanyway :
I love the term out-law vs in-law 👏👏
2026-07-29 13:27:03
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Silomani :
He is right. But if you love each other you can always make it work. We did.
2026-09-06 11:11:03
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Georgia :
Yes, those are the four topics to seek an agreement on. However, also knowledge worthy is John Gottman’s 50 year research study. The findings were the number one predictor of divorced is contempt. Contempt communicates that one partner sees the other has beneath them. It includes eye rolling, sneering, sarcasm, insults, ridicule, mocking, and hostility. Close seconds are criticism, defensiveness and stonewalling. I wish I would’ve understood this sooner.😢
2026-07-30 10:14:13
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kokokiki066 :
Before you have kids is more important cos marriage you can always get a divorce
2026-08-14 17:15:55
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Kathleen :
We agreed on all 4. And yet he cheated
2026-07-29 20:28:16
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johneblackwelljr :
#1 reason for Divorce is MARRIAGE Dave!
2026-07-28 23:43:42
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Katyamoon :
I think marriage is more than just love. It's about a deeper connexion and choosing each other every day, even when life gets hard. 🤍
2026-07-29 17:51:42
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TAI :
👑KING JESUS CHRIST
2026-07-29 15:14:00
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deepblue :
Doesn't matter if u have all 4 if u don't have values and good up bringing it will never work. The no 1 reason is infidelity nobody wants to be with a liar and a cheat no matter what religion, money, politics and how much u agree on about kids and family- why are we even debating nobody should be getting married in 2026, just why😁
2026-07-31 03:09:45
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hikehikebaby :
The only other thing I would add to that is cleaning and household duties. How are those being divided?
2026-07-28 23:43:32
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Kori :
there are many more than 4
2026-07-30 14:42:52
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mjg_000 :
He so nailed everything. I don’t think some young people get how paramount this is in the beginning.
2026-07-28 22:02:37
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Julio Pimienta :
it's the truth sadly!!
2026-08-09 02:30:31
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user5935247355662 :
Cheating
2026-07-30 04:23:23
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LakeOzarkRealtor_AmberElliott :
Easy! True!
2026-08-01 01:55:24
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B4+2 :
I absolutely agree!
2026-07-31 05:04:20
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Jaesealove :
We didn't have these things figured out when we first got married (pregnant first than married 10 days later 😬). Almost divorced 3 years later, but we went to counseling and learned these things. Been married 18 1/2 years now.
2026-07-29 13:00:41
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GrowingwithDee :
Married 20 years here: for us it was learning how important our Emotions are and learning to develop Emotional Intelligence: self awareness, emotional regulation, delayed gratification, emotional resilience, empathy. This looks like trust, loyalty and loving communication. We have been Christians but didn’t learn this in church unfortunately.
2026-08-02 14:14:23
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perezp71 :
Facts!
2026-07-29 17:18:14
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Tik Tac :
Religious views and especially sx compatibility are in the too 3 too.
2026-08-04 04:59:29
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