@_olivialesurfwray: They can care deeply about you… and still walk away. One of the hardest truths after a breakup is believing that if someone was invested, they would’ve stayed. But connection and capacity are not the same thing. Someone can love you, feel attached to you, miss you, and still not have the emotional capacity to repair, communicate, or build a healthy relationship. Love doesn’t automatically create emotional maturity. Chemistry doesn’t automatically create commitment. Feelings don’t automatically create healthy behaviour. Stop measuring your worth by someone else’s capacity to show up. Sometimes the breakup isn’t proof that the connection wasn’t real. It’s proof that the relationship needed more than feelings alone. That realisation can change everything. 🤍 Your therapist Olivia Lesurf Wray🌿 #breakuphealing #attachmenttheory #heartbreakrecovery #relationshipadvice #selfhealing

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