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Kmart :
What if misandry is bad because men also have feelings? Not because it hurts women in a roundabout way
2026-07-29 02:38:05
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🌜Lenii🌛 :
as someone actively working on this, i think what some people are missing is no one is saying you can’t be angry or cautious with men but like lets work on the rhetoric and language we are using when addressing the public.
2026-07-28 19:41:55
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Nao ¦ Layla & Columbina #1 fan :
Once I got said that the "all men" means "only the men that attack us" and if you're not part of those men you shouldn't feel attacked. I was like....... What kind of logic is that?? And let's suppose that's actually what they mean. Do they really expect a teenager who just happened to create their first social media account and founds a girl/woman saying that to understand that they mean that? Words and phrases have a meaning, and when it's one as simple as "I hate all men" it's pretty easy to find a simple and dangerous meaning to those words.... Words have power, and we should be careful about how we phrase things
2026-07-30 00:56:30
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John bigmeat :
Hate breeds hate for those who don’t understand what she said
2026-07-29 02:15:54
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massive honkers :
Probably a very niche experience admittedly, but misandry was a large reason I put off coming out as trans for such a long time. I was terrified that being a man would immediately turn me into this inherently evil, vile person who could do nothing right, and could only hope to maybe be halfway decent at my absolute best, and the thought was crushing. when I finally began transitioning it was very enlightening to see how many women around me, my friends and family, suddenly saw my every flaw as a personal and moral failure.
2026-07-28 22:25:14
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M :
Is it our duty to soften our approach? I don’t know if the system of patriarchy ever treated women with the same softness. My anger comes from the burden of responsibility falling on women to re educate and having to demand inherent value when we were always taught to devalue in comparison to a man. But i have a feeling we aren’t too far off each others perspective. I see your point. Be the example. But oof its hard sometimes.
2026-07-28 23:07:24
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Mori | YT: @gwyn-blaiddstudios :
Misogyny and Misandry go hand in hand with each other because they uphold the same oppressive systems.
2026-07-29 02:40:07
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Biron :
Yes let’s all hate eachother forever and be consumed in an endless cycle of spite
2026-07-29 00:13:20
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sin 😾💫 :
Genuine question: I understand the argument that misandry is still “centering men” and that the goal is to be indifferent instead. But how is that realistic when women are constantly affected by men’s actions, whether it’s harassment, assault, abuse, discrimination, or laws affecting our rights? You can cut off one toxic person, but you can’t remove men as a whole from your life. So what does “decentering men” actually look like in practice? I’m genuinely asking because I want to understand.
2026-07-29 02:49:17
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ewshesontiktokagain :
Misandry is not real bruh
2026-07-28 21:11:22
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Mariam :
i def agree but imo misandry is in of itself just a nothingburger rhetoric that has no weight outside of online spheres and i doubt misandry plays a major part in red pill content. if anything, id like to argue that the manosphere is a reaction towards fourth wave feminism in general. i dont believe men are inherently evil and we dont really see misandry affecting the real world beyond radfem videos and tweets (at least in my experience)
2026-07-28 23:58:40
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Dabombiest :
Also, mens issues are just as major as womens—theyre just not as loud. Going off your snake eating its own tail idea, it kinda becomes this circular thing that looks something to the effect of: patriarchal system built by our grandfathers-> said system creating issues for both genders -> men complain about said issues -> “okay but who set that system up?” -> men hate women for not fighting for their issues as well and thus dont fight for feminism -> back to square one because we cant stop hating each other long enough to fix any problems.
2026-07-29 02:34:02
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Chewy :
I did see someone say that while Misandrists use “It’s not all ____, buts it’s always ____” it kinda gives the green light for Racists to use it too, and I look at it and unfortunately I think their right, which is not the way we want to go, we can’t fight fire with fire
2026-07-29 23:21:38
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Jeff Figueroa :
I genuinely worry these boys growing up watching that red pill content and then getting online and seeing people talk about them like that just confirms the red pill videos and makes the situation worse.
2026-07-28 19:45:44
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mpregolas :
we love a diversity of tactics ❣️thank you for spreading nuance.
2026-07-29 15:33:26
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DapplegrayManor :
I’ve been told that Black people cant be racist against white people because of the systemic oppression against Black people by white people. If that’s true, then women can’t be misandrists, because what is hated is the oppression, not the sex/gender of the people.
2026-07-29 03:52:18
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MarcusQ :
Misandry is honestly a big component of the misogyny pipeline, and vice versa. Social media is designed to amplify stuff like this. I considered myself a feminist since I was a young teen. Women pushed me into the red pill sphere, but in time, I realized that wasn't where my values are. I consider myself a feminist, but I am absolutely aware of how heavily it is hijacked.
2026-07-29 15:47:25
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Shaq is back :
you just keep cooking and they can't handle the heat.
2026-07-28 20:08:37
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Elfel_cain :
I still don’t think our energy should be shifted towards policing the opressed. There is a place of privilege one can reside because they decide it’s time to stop being angry and to start holding hands and singing Kumbaya, but that is entirely based on how serious you assess the situation to be. Would you use this same argument towards victims of racism and other systems of oppression? Or do you just feel outside the range of suffering enough to be able to stand above it and pat yourself on the back?
2026-07-28 23:53:34
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Bunnies Bunnies Bunnies :
toxic masculinity isn't just perpetuated by men.
2026-07-29 09:57:02
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HYPNOTICA :
Realising your oppressors are also victims is genuinely the first step. Doesn’t excuse their behaviour, but they’re victims too
2026-07-28 20:09:36
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Ryley Robinson :
i always beg people to realize that feminism is a field of study, and simply aligning with womanhood in some way does not single-handedly make them experts
2026-07-28 23:19:12
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blah blah blah :
huge issue rn going on for trans men is everyone being like "well youre still a man" as an excuse to mistreat and demean us so... yeah id definitely say misandry is really hurting trans men
2026-07-29 02:22:36
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Sam's Groove :
While I personally agree that in the long run, reacting with kindness would be more conducive to a better outcome faster, I do believe misandry is the very real exhaustion of women who have had to "react well" all of their lives (and also historically, for thousands of years). I think there is a real pressure felt among women to just "move on" from their pain and find their own peace while living in fear of discrimination or SA and they finally put their foot down. All of my female friends have been SA'ed or harassed at least once in their lives. For me to tell them "hey, hate doesn't kill hate, you should react with mindfulness" would be to tell them to kill off a part of themselves—their anger at the injustice they suffered, the part of themselves thinking "it's still ME who has to do the work of considering the feelings of the ones who scarred me?". I believe, to a certain extent, to say they shouldn't hate men because it's male centered would feel to people who are still affected by these things every single day to just "get over it". It is VERY SAD that the people in these comments miss this very point and think misandry is just as bad as misogyny. But I digress—my point to all this was to say: putting the blame of men's red pill movement on the rise of misandry is the least empathetic option. But if empathy is irrelevant to you, then consider how it's taking away men's responsibility for their own thoughts. As if it's assuming men are stupid and just reacting to insults, as if they cannot comprehend the very real issues women face. They're responsible for understanding the context in which they were brought up and the privileges they enjoy (just like white people should in the problem of racism, or a rich person in this poverty stricken world). I personally think there is a distinction between a person who happens to be male and the institute of "man", the way society brings up children with this identity—the toxic masculinity that's become a stereotype but also so engrained in our society that we have to actively unlearn it. Therefore, when I say "I hate men", my male friends know I'm not talking about them, but the "man" society encourages them to be.
2026-07-29 12:46:13
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