@lindseyxworth: I thought healing would be about missing them.. turns out it’s been about learning to trust myself again❤️‍🩹 If you’ve ever been blindsided, I hope this reminds you that someone else’s choices don’t erase your intuition🫂 #postbreakup #healing #breakupadvice #fyp

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morgantay777
Morgan :
This is something I’m working on and this perspective helped me “don’t shame or blame past you for the decisions she made with the information she had at the time compared to the information you have now”
2026-09-24 07:46:48
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101errorbitch
101errorbitch :
THIS, I can’t trust my own judgment now 😭
2026-09-25 01:09:47
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_my.kenzie
Kenz :
It’s okay Ashley tisdale. You will be okay 💫
2026-07-28 21:44:23
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friedcalam.ari
Ari Girl :
keep in mind that when you feel this way, you were someone who took advantage of your trust. they knew where they were at and CHOSE to not be transparent or do the work with you. that says much more about them than it does you.
2026-07-28 21:52:11
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carrrrlz
carrrrlz :
i saw the most helpful advice on being discarded by someone with avoidant attachment the other day that changed this feeling for me - never listen to their triggered words. when they say they don’t love you, don’t want to be with you, don’t see a future with you etc and it’s seemingly out of the blue and it’s a 180 from what they had been saying previously, it’s not truly how they feel. they’re using their words to create distance and give themselves a false sense of closure. your intuition was correct. you know your shared experiences with them. don’t let their words shatter your confidence in your discernment. their nervous system was triggered by closeness/commitment/connection so they created distance to regulate in a way that was deeply hurtful and traumatic to you, but don’t allow their words to hold weight over your experience. you know what you felt.
2026-07-29 13:28:15
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hayleyhammerberg
Hayley Hammerberg :
This isn’t talked about enough! So true.
2026-07-28 21:04:00
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mcm_307
mcm :
He left after 8 years for the girl he told me not to worry about😊 5 years later they’re married with two kids and he’s looking at my socials….
2026-07-28 22:22:51
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pinkpigandsoap
lo :
girllll he was moderate!!!
2026-07-29 07:52:56
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gabbbbygloriaaa
Ga🐝 :
the love 100% blinded you! do NOT lose faith in yourself and your intuition. especially if you had signs. YOU care and HE manipulated the situation. that’s 100% HIS issue, NOT yours. 💕 keep giving 100% & trusting yourself! the right person who’s worthy of it will love that about you ✨
2026-07-28 21:24:23
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carleerclawson
Carlee Renee Clawson :
Yes yes yes. Even if you did nothing wrong, you feel so stupid
2026-07-29 01:09:53
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cettemaman
Nat :
I kept telling my hg that it felt like Ashton Kutcher was going to pop out say “you got punked”.. but that it was just me and my attachment style. Nope. A bitch did 100% get punked 🥲
2026-08-09 17:28:47
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m905330
m905330 :
I dealt with that 1000% after my last break up. I was so angry for not listening to my gut, but at the same time I had someone telling me everything was fine. But remember that if someone isn’t being truthful with you, honest with you, you are only able to discern the information in front of you. I’ve worked a lot with my therapist to deal with the aftermath of a discard and lack of trust that it caused within myself. Give yourself grace, you got this!! Things are only looking up 🫶
2026-07-28 20:56:51
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icanteatwheat
Nausicaä :
If I can give any advice, bc you are so strong and intuitive, I would try to reframe it as he was scary good at manipulating, gaslighting and showing you what you wanted to see. I know you may have seen yellow flags, but he probably recognized that and did/said things to shut down your warning bell. He is the toxic one, not your beautiful and kind soul. Wanting to be loved is not a bad thing, he took advantage of that and played the game until he didn’t want to anymore. Don’t let him steal this from you bc you are a baddie and he took advantage of that 😢🩷🫶🏻
2026-07-28 21:16:04
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sdm0524
★ Shelby ★ :
Yep, unfortunately your mind will now default to looking for red flags even when there aren’t any.
2026-07-28 21:17:32
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elisabeth82672
Elisabeth82672 :
It’s okay we all would have been blinded by the white coat 😩
2026-07-28 22:23:59
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elraca
Ely :
Ive learned in my 40 years when a relationship ends, it's not so much about grieving the loss that takes patience to overcome, it's forgiving yourself for what you think you should've known better.
2026-07-29 16:09:11
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ashleeptrs
ashlee :
do not lose trust in yourself. how he acted shows how he truly is & how good of a liar he is.
2026-07-28 22:05:47
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kayyylawilliams
Monstera Mami ✨ 🌱 :
Daily affirmations helped me a lot with this feeling 😌
2026-07-28 20:39:45
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meghanlcash
meghanlcash :
Thank you for this!!! I relate so deeply and have not been able to understand it, because people don’t talk about this. You are ✨ AMAZING ✨ You deserve the whole entire world!
2026-08-03 03:43:40
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.chasing_sunsets
Ashley 🌺 :
I hate to say it but it comes with age. I’m 40 and my gut told me SO MANY TIMES in my 20s and 30s to RUN. It told me again when I was 38-39 and I listened and I’m SO glad I did because it led me directly to my soulmate. TRUST YOURSELF… she’s right every single time
2026-08-02 17:11:18
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cj_jaffit
✡️CJ✡️ :
It was our year and seven months today/yesterday. Haven’t go to sleep yet. He broke up with me completely blindsided.
2026-08-23 08:18:57
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etherealowlenchantress
spenc :
After what my ex fiance did i felt this way. Everyone kept saying “at least he told you” and im like “ya that’s good and all but at the end of the day i had ZERO clue and if he wouldn’t have told id have married him and that’s terrifying how shocked and blind sided i was” it took a long time for me to fully realize the impact that had on me. I still struggle with trusting people. But one thing I’ve realized is the simple fact is no matter your intuition people can be good liars, which is on them. I thought that if i waited longer to trust someone that was smarter but realized i had been with him for almost 9 years and figured out i never knew a whole side of him. You might never truly know anyone because there will often be things people keep close to the chest about themselves. Moving forward you just have to trust YOURSELF enough that once they show you their true colors you will leave. That you know you’ll be okay without whomever if they wrong you because you’ve been through hardships before and came out on the other end okay and maybe stronger. Sending you love ❤️
2026-08-07 18:24:30
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alanajessie
Alana.jessie :
I used to tell my therapist “how can I trust my intuition if it failed me once” and she made me realize that having had that experience didn’t mean necessary it will happen again, quite the contrary it means that you are now wiser to understand and react sooner. Which was very helpful to comprehend
2026-07-29 03:25:44
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_lakenh
_lakenh :
2 1/2 years gone 3 days ago and I truly believed he was the one. Your page has helped me in this early stages
2026-07-30 18:07:52
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emilycollins516
Emily Morrison :
I dated someone for 8 years (age 21-29) and I looked past SO much because I figured he had to be my person since we had been together so long. I felt so stupid for wasting so much of my life on him. Less than a month after we broke up an old friend reached out and asked to catch up sometime. I’m now happily married with a 10 month old and life couldn’t be better. This needed to happen so you can find your forever
2026-07-29 20:50:27
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