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Mem Deisel :
I experienced a lot regarding this issue. You are 100% right. One example from me? ….. i was explaining to a close person that i was having a serious issue with violence and i escaped very hardly from that situation. I was seriously injoured and the only thing that person was interested in was when i can help out. ———-> my advices: don’t be good in advance, let people earn. Do not rush to show your good sides but stay friendly. Do not offer help to fast, observe and place your good deeds wisely. Do NOT expect anything in return. If you need help: ASK for it without reconsideration. If you want to know if your friend is a real friend: talk in a calm session about your struggle you think you would need help but do not ask him ! And then observe whats coming as an offer. Do not push, do not give a comment or do not give a rating. Judge in your mind, categorize that person and never look back. Move on. Accept that person as a person you know and not a friend if he disappoints you !
2026-07-31 00:35:43
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clodaghbrennan978 :
So true!
2026-07-31 13:28:00
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Anna Mol :
Thank you for saying this. My mother passed away and I have been consoling a friend of mine on her dad’s passing. But who was consoling me? Myself 😂
2026-07-31 14:37:26
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cldkxkdkks :
oh God you just described my abusive, manipulative and narcissistic parents 😃🤌🏻
2026-07-30 12:51:39
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lumen6233 :
I’m going through this right now and it hurts but it’s making me stronger
2026-07-29 14:02:27
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khammy💕😋 :
how about communication tho. why do you have to wait for your partner to ask you instead of just being open so you guys are on the same page throughout. I could never understand the mentality of keeping thing in then complaining about noone asking about it.
2026-07-29 02:34:15
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F.woww84 :
This is me right now . 😅am living like never before 🥰selflove is important. i never be attached to ppl why , bz i know ppl change like no one business.
2026-07-31 13:59:27
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Deeski❌ :
This is so true
2026-07-29 17:54:53
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TexasBMW11 :
Protect your Peace ✌🏼
2026-07-29 00:00:21
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WJar :
that's typical of a narcissitic behaviour.
2026-07-29 02:48:41
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Claudia Nomfundo@473 :
My mother. She will never be great full with anything you can do for her. I left never looking back
2026-07-29 05:02:45
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Sarah White :
If you’re not communicating this…. How would anyone know. People aren’t mind readers.
2026-07-29 02:53:29
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shawn.the.1st :
Am I toxic for demanding that ppl show up for me regardless of what they are going through, as long as they are not in hospital and are not grieving a death of a loved one I expect them there!!! If I can do it, show up when I'm going through the most, I expect that you do the same!!!
2026-07-29 06:27:25
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Jennie :
Wait? There are people listening to you when your struggling and be there for you? I feel So poor 😭.
2026-07-29 11:29:53
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Virginia Spraggins Mackey :
This is so true. Some people don’t celebrate you the same way you celebrate them
2026-07-29 11:10:58
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Marfy :
This is the message from a "relative" of mine, a month and a half after my attempted suicide... "Now you're going too far. Making your mother suffer like this, who, if you don't remember, has a heart condition, and this kind of pain can make the situation worse. I've always thought of you as a sensitive and good boy. Are you realizing what you're teaching your son? And the responsibility you're taking on for his future? Try to open your eyes and calm down. No one wants your apologies: let's just ignore them and pretend nothing happened. Know that we all love you here and are worried about you, and, I repeat, we don't want apologies, just normalcy. I'm waiting for your response, or rather, a phone call." Three years have passed, and now I'm here.
2026-07-30 00:17:13
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Maya Simisola Capuder :
happening all the time
2026-07-29 02:35:09
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Nj :
This💯
2026-07-29 04:44:02
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Heidi Field-Alvarez :
Yazzz!
2026-07-28 23:46:13
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Anneli Ottosson :
Truth ✨💝✨✨
2026-07-29 15:19:23
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Guliwe :
This is very deep. I can relate
2026-07-29 05:40:04
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Kar De :
And they wonder why we make boundaries
2026-07-29 03:39:11
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Coach Shelly 🇨🇦 :
1000% true!
2026-07-29 02:41:37
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user65779729441324 :
so true!
2026-07-29 14:04:19
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