@professor_paradox_tok: Why Are Men So Embarrassing?: A Critical Memoir

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genwithanvieve
genevieve🍉 :
I saw a comment under another video, and someone said, "Yes, women are now independent of what men used to provide: housing, stability, money. Now we need to ask: are men independent of what women used to provide: cooking, cleaning, child rearing, mental labor?"
2026-07-29 23:10:05
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tracylostinnb
tracylostinnb 🇨🇦 :
Women want men who don’t exist yet, and men want women who don’t exist anymore.
2026-07-29 16:37:38
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.lib_by
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I think this is also why so many men grow to resent their girlfriends and wives. We hold a mirror to them and challenge them to be better people, and often times instead of growing, they hate us for it.
2026-07-29 14:07:40
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kannsnoob
LilBubs_BlackCat :
men are realizing theyre NOT NEEDED. but they dont have enough to just be WANTED.
2026-07-29 19:06:35
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np_g27
np_g27 :
“Nothing more embarrassing than someone who refuses to know themselves” YES, I’ve been saying this for years. I believe that To know thyself (and being willing to do something about it if you wish to be different in some way) is one of the most valuable skills a person can have.
2026-07-29 01:54:40
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1nerdybirde
Jazz :
You are so incredibly well spoken and intelligent, i watched this entire this and you are so insightful. If you ever made a podcast I’d love it just saying lol
2026-09-05 10:41:58
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itsmorganquinn
Morgan :
You’re a beautiful writer and storyteller
2026-07-29 03:48:06
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whoknowsnugget
Zog :
i am slightly drunk rn but i hope my comment stills conveys what i am trying to say, this is an amazing listen, your intersection of race, gender, and disability really brings it all together, i wish more people could look inside and realize what you have. wonderful writing, keep up the good work.
2026-07-29 06:17:14
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mcstupidface
McStupidFace :
i really like how you keep your dad complex and allow his memory to be well rounded. it makes this a really interesting story
2026-07-29 03:44:04
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theophrastus.bomb3
theophrastus bombastus :
Yeah bro fr what are we doing…?
2026-09-04 02:18:56
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janagagne
jana Gagné :
Convincing men that who they are outside of work does not matter is one of capitalism's greatest exploit
2026-07-29 17:02:28
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littleshopofwhorrors
Little shop of whorrors 🎀🎃 :
Was not planning on staying for this entire video but your storytelling is captivating and highlights your messaging in a really gentle but impactful way
2026-07-29 04:34:50
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raynniecakes
raynnie ♡ 🇨🇦 :
this was so well said, thank you for sharing your story.
2026-09-04 19:44:41
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joy.kinser
Joy Kinser :
Your ability as a teen boy to speak up in court about the contributions of your father and mother is incredible. Clear seeds of who you are today. Thank you for this excellent breakdown.
2026-07-29 04:36:57
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torchdawitch
TorchtheWitch🇨🇦 :
That was a staggeringly good essay. Well written. Well delivered. Thank you for your candor. Thank you for sharing that energy with everyone.✨
2026-07-29 05:04:13
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joy2thewrld
Joy :
This was a fantastic listen. Your ability to connect these systemic factors was absolutely cathartic.
2026-07-29 02:22:28
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mysticmistake0
Mystic :
There is no male loneliness epidemic, there’s a male empathy deficit.
2026-08-31 19:21:19
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inbedwithdanielle
Danielle Kramer, LLC :
"ever the curious fella" - AND THAT'S IT MEN!! THATS. IT. be curious - curious about what she's going through, curious about her and your feelings, curious about what's going on between you two. BE. CURIOUS.
2026-09-01 01:16:16
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rae_______
Rae :
Achingly vulnerable and needed storytelling. Thank you. Also your voice is so soothing
2026-07-29 06:02:06
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user381748487
1111 :
This is really well said. To add, women also are caught up in the demands of capitalism which requires them to work both on the clock and off, and they are having their awakening now because capitalism has drained them to the breaking point. Men haven’t been drained all the way yet, and resent women instead of looking at the broader picture of how far removed we are of human connection and self awareness. The manosphere has always existed and it’s called capitalism.
2026-07-28 23:18:17
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actuallyev_
Actually Ev ✌️🍉 :
”we make our apathetic nihilism into a personality trait, because that choice saves us from doing the hard work of searching inward and asking ourselves who we want to be in this world” IS SO GOOD 👏👏👏👏👏
2026-07-29 08:47:12
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jannsworld
jannsworld :
you write and sound like anthony bourdain and he never missed either
2026-07-30 20:59:25
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.lib_by
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“His vocational success rested on the foundation of a well kept and stable home,” is so important. Sooo many men would not be where they are if they didn’t rely on the labor of women. They have time and peace of mind to peruse their careers and their ideas of a family because there’s a woman setting the stage for them.
2026-07-29 14:02:06
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