@ericaschmidt95: I have been so incredibly absent from here for a long time which has been partially nice because I have time to just focus on my children but we have just been so incredibly busy that I feel like I have not come up for air in weeks. my daughter turned three at the beginning of the month and since then we have had multiple birthday parties, Christmas in July functions, a wedding, and my husband just got back from my four-day bachelor trip in Florida. I wish that we were done with the craziness but I still have four more birthday parties in August, a bridal shower, and three weddings between now and October. I have never needed to just get out of the house more than this week to just breathe