This whole discourse has made me realize straight people are always gonna be trapped in the prison they have the keys to 😭
2026-07-29 22:12:53
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PaPaYapper :
"How am I homophobic, I don't like Bi men because (insert something egregiously homophobic)"...
2026-07-30 05:36:53
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Stephen_in_Charlotte :
As a straight man this is a litmus test. If someone holds homophobic or racist views then I don't want to date them. If a white man doesn't want to date a woman because she slept with a black man in the past then we know it's rooted in racism/bigotry. If a straight woman doesn't want to date a bi man because he might have slept with another man in the past we know it is rooted in homophobia/bigotry. They both have a bias that needs to be addressed and unlearned. The white man and straight woman in those scenarios are NOT safe people.
2026-07-29 12:04:33
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hannah banana :
I don’t think they have an issue with listening or comprehension they just want to be right.
2026-07-29 06:54:31
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Kallavan :
they're more concerned about being labelled homophobic than they are about deconstructing their homophobia
2026-08-01 15:14:07
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Donny :
Someone will say “you don’t have to date bi men” in a video and people will still comment “you’re saying I have to date bi men?!” Where is the logic
2026-07-29 21:08:22
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strawhatnirah :
they’ll be like “ if I’m homophobic then you’re anti straight! “ 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
2026-08-01 11:21:47
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T'mara McMillan :
my reason is just MY Reason 😂😂, it's not problematic, it's just my choice
2026-08-03 20:17:15
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Saani’s Music Diary :
I’m fine with being the villain and whatever phobia you want me to be.
2026-08-04 07:25:37
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Amari :
They still not listening 😭
2026-07-29 07:04:51
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ness :
Is it problematic to say you only want to date someone of your race?
2026-08-02 15:32:04
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Tasha4short 🇵🇦 :
What reason would suffice for you?
2026-07-30 22:15:13
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Baylee :
Thank youuuuu. Nobody is saying you have to but yeah your reasoning does fall under a certain classification The same way no one forces anybody to date Black people, but if someone says they don’t date blk people specifically because they’re black we know that that falls under a certain classification that we call racism
2026-07-28 23:34:38
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Tiliea :
Everyday we are all prejudice in some form. If you don’t want to date a homeless person, it’s ok. Do you. But it’s classism. Classism & homophobia are both a form of prejudice among a million other reasons u have for not wanting to date someone. we ALL have some prejudice in us. Someone not wanting to other ppl because of height is discriminating. So what ?
2026-08-05 16:31:06
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Pippie :
it's only problematic for y'all.
2026-08-01 04:19:08
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A :
they just refuse to accept they might hold homophobic views
2026-08-03 16:48:06
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The Wrinkles Club :
What reason would make it not homophonic?
2026-07-30 20:45:30
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Jay Paige :
is it homophobia is straights don't want to date trans as well? genuinely asking.
2026-08-02 13:47:13
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Hi :
As a heterosexual man, I do not date, bisexual women. I have no problem with homosexuals. I’m not homophobic the reason I don’t date my reason I don’t date, bisexual women. I just think they’re just too freaky. Do that make me homophobic? I’m asking a question.
2026-07-29 16:31:05
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mela_kaye :
Yeah, well your reasoning is rooted in heterophobia.
2026-07-30 20:41:16
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tumblr: @shaysplanet :
for anyone not understanding why it’s bigoted and problematic: not wanting to date any bi man EVER has the same reasoning as a white man who wouldn’t want to date a white woman because she also dated and/or slept with a black man. y’all have some weird sexual notion that it makes the man impure. you end up imagining him in positions you deem are only for women (internalized misogyny) and therefore view him as inferior or a bitch. or you simply carry the belief that if a man has desired another man, he can’t truly like women and you feel like he’ll leave you for a man (personal insecurity). all of those reasons are projections that conservative made up. society, in general, views sex as conquest and not pleasure so this debate really just highlights the conditioning we still have to unlearn. if you viewed intimacy in a healthy way, you’d not care about who a person has been intimate with IN THE PAST because you’d be smart enough to get tested. y’all sound like men who claim women with high body counts aren’t relationship material.
2026-07-29 09:39:20
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NOAUTODIRT🧟♂️ :
I think what’s pissing yall off more is that straight women don’t care about being called homophobic 😭😭😭
2026-08-01 16:07:42
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