@anxiouslyalej: There is a palpable difference between the man who treats your relationship as an HONOR and the man who treats it as a FAVOR. And the difference was never about how much you did for him. The women who do LESS are not doing nothing. They are doing less over-functioning, less over-explaining, less over-accommodating, because they operate from security and abundance instead of fear and scarcity. When you over-function, you are not acting based on how you want him to feel, you are moving based on the emotion you are actively trying to avoid. And you stay so busy performing that you never come back to yourself long enough to see the disparity between the effort you are putting forth and the effort he is. Because the scariest place to be as a woman is in a relationship he settled into, since a man who has not consciously chosen this will have to continue to be convinced. You deserve to be known and loved by a man who understands your words and more importantly, your silence. I break this all the way down in my new YouTube video, why women who do less end up in better relationships, including why you should never be the one selling the relationship and how to tell a man who chose you from a man you convinced. Keywords: dating advice for women, relationship psychology, over-functioning in relationships, feminine energy, do less for men, do less in relationships #datingadviceforwomen #womensdatingadvice #relationships #datingadvice

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