If they “change” their behavior, give it three weeks. The mask usually drops within those three weeks.
2026-07-29 13:50:57
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Coalie Moore :
You blink and six years have passed..
2026-07-29 14:10:11
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Jlo Deykno :
Confusion = Devil
2026-07-29 06:57:40
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Simple 🧘♀️ Soul :
He future faked me so much
2026-07-29 12:39:13
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🇨🇦MarMar’s farm👩🏼🌾🐣🦆🐝 :
Yup, and his mother will protect him whatever harm he has caused 💀
2026-08-01 13:43:51
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P.S :
we need more on covert . It took me years to understand wtf was even happening
2026-07-29 10:56:32
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Cmercer93 :
They will do stuff so passive aggressive and low key that anyone on the outside would think you’re crazy explaining it to them but you KNOW what they did was intentional and on purpose.
2026-07-29 22:45:36
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Kat Corps 🍉 :
When I told my ex I was done with our marriage, he went into over drive suddenly doing everything I had been crying and begging for for years at that point. Things he told me were in my head and I was being dramatic. He started following me around and wanting to spend quality time with me. He started wanting to go out and do things with me and our kids. It was like he morphed into that person I had been begging for overnight. BUT luckily one thing he said reminded me that it was a fantasy. He kept saying “I’ve been like this all along, you just didn’t pay attention” he couldn’t resist that little gaslighting in there. I also saw one day a quote that said something like if they only change because they’re losing you then your suffering didn’t matter to them until they had something to lose. That kept me on track and I didn’t give in and it was HARD. Almost a year free now!
2026-07-29 14:19:53
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sweetnative85 :
they do that is when you decide to leave and it becomes a pattern
2026-08-01 19:25:57
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aqualovergirl :
Yup I literally went through this. It’s so psychologically damaging
2026-07-29 11:49:58
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Crissy 🛩️ Sapphic Wanderlust :
& then they NEVER actually go to therapy, never take accountability or make real change! It’s all manipulation so you’re trapped & can’t move on
2026-07-29 14:40:08
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Tajiiee :
So where are the good people
2026-08-01 18:38:03
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Jess :
Understanding structural dissociation makes narcissistic behavior make so much sense. They aren't always consciously "faking" it, their personality is fragmented, and whichever "part" gets the result they need in that split second is the part that takes over.
When they’re being charming, they genuinely feel it in that moment. If you challenge them, the aggressive Fight part snaps online to regain control. But if that aggression backfires, the system panics and instantly pivots to Victim or Fawn mode (softening up, playing helpless, rewriting history) to do damage control.
It’s tactical survival. Power, pity, or sweetness whatever state yields the result they need in that exact micro-second is what comes forward. And because they switch parts entirely, they fully believe their own story in the moment, which is why it’s so unnerving to watch.
2026-08-01 18:51:49
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KiKi 🦄 :
That’s what kept me around so long 😮💨
2026-07-29 09:18:03
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Carrie Saum :
It’s especially a disorienting when they tell you how much they love you and are very emotional about changing. But a trauma bond is a trauma bond. Sometimes they just come with Apologies.
2026-07-29 06:53:58
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Living In Faith Off Grid :
This is the nightmare our girls are growing into. Disney has them as the villain but what about when they’re everywhere…
2026-08-01 16:03:16
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Ms.Lips68 :
Circle of death
2026-07-31 04:51:25
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✝️ Dee 💝 :
ugh wish i could have you be a special guest in my narc abuse survivors group 😂
2026-07-30 23:33:20
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Matthew 7:14 :
Its so fucked up they will put in this amount of energy into faking everything. They KNOW exactly what theyre doing.
2026-07-30 18:33:53
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YouCanHaveHim :
“Sometimes they realize they need to change”…..no they don’t. They realize they need to trick you more to benefit more
2026-07-31 06:56:42
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gen❌wonderland of the divine :
It’s NEVER genuine! I have fallen for it for 17 years! It’s a constant cycle that NEVER ENDS!
2026-07-30 13:08:08
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Uselessgoblin :
And even when they DO go to therapy all they do is use it and the therapy speech as another manipulation tool
2026-07-29 16:44:43
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kaylahopehair :
Honestly I’ve been with a malignant narcissist, and a covert one, the covert one seems more sinister because she kept saying and doing a little of what I asked, the malignant one was evil to my face at least.
2026-07-29 15:42:44
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Mari 🍵 :
They’re so good at masking because they’re that delusional and have mastered distortion so well, that even they believe they’re the person they’re pretending to be and the minute the mirror reflects something else, they punish you or guilt you. It’s so fcking scary!!!!!!
2026-07-29 22:31:23
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dani_351 :
Lord I went back after being broken up for 6 months after a 5 year relationship. He went to therapy, took accountability, apologized. It took WEEKS for his bs to start again! So now I'm going through a breakup AGAIN.
2026-07-30 00:26:53
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