Apro
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bbysyg2222 :
haha i healed my parents. im also blessed they want to heal themselves. not everything applies to all though.
2026-08-01 08:37:41
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oTHersIdesSsME :
I have learned to accept them and forgive them. I stay with them, and although I sometimes get hurt, I have learned to let it go because we are all human. Now, they are also learning to let things go and take care of themselves. We cannot change the past, and we cannot predict the future. But we can do our best today. By drawing clear boundaries and balancing our emotions, we can find peace. Happiness is what people chase, but peace is what people truly need. I could not abandon them because they raised me, even if they could not love me in the way I wanted. They were not perfect, but they never abandoned me or left me to starve in this cruel world. For that, I will always be grateful.
2026-08-01 05:44:23
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Anisss :
i wish i could send this to all eldest daughter and son🥰
2026-07-30 02:52:18
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Apro :
Stop trying to save them and let go of the savior mentality: Your parents' lives are their responsibility; you are not their therapist. Stop waiting for apologies: Acknowledge that they won't change, nor will they offer belated understanding or apologies. Stop making excuses: Don't rationalize the hurt with "that's how it was in their generation"; acknowledge your own pain first. Focus on yourself and establish clear boundaries: Reject emotional blackmail and protect your energy and personal space. Care for your inner child: Shift your focus away from your parents and instead listen to and comfort your wounded self. Break the vicious cycle: Stop passing on the negative patterns of the previous generation to future generations or those around you.🙏🙏🙏☸️☸️☸️☮️☮️☮️🌻🌻🌻😳😳😳😳😳🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
2026-07-30 09:55:42
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小猫咪喵喵喵 :
I go extreme. cut off contact.
2026-07-30 02:58:54
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Conor and Jarell :
I just hate both sides of grandpas. they made them like that.
2026-08-02 04:44:30
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? :
if they interfere with our personal life?
2026-08-03 05:02:25
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Pecintasenja56 :
never... its hurt so much
2026-08-01 07:27:17
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baizu :
Me trying to introduce Jesus to my very religious muslim parents 😭
2026-07-30 07:23:57
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syaf’s :
You can’t change the past but you can make the future better
2026-07-30 07:55:32
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immersiv.ir :
I learned to accept and expect 0 thing, let them live their life and do the best i could to make em happy
2026-08-02 08:43:50
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DrMakoy :
Sometimes the only way is to let go and accept. Hard and painful asf knowing it's them you look up to😞
2026-07-30 05:41:33
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babytulipsssss :
Just cut off contact or interact with them at a minimal level. For your own sake.
2026-07-30 14:22:05
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Nunu In The Garden :
Its the same with their political opinions. Dont change them. No matter how you dislike it.
2026-07-30 09:44:36
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Better Person :
its true, ive tried to advise them since 26 years ago, they never heard.. now im the one who responsible for their failure (accomodation, place to live, entertaintment, medical expenses, ect).. so im a bit confuse its their karma or mine? 🤣🤣
2026-07-31 04:30:14
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bangsemi :
we only ✨HEAL✨ oursleves
2026-07-30 06:34:38
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lili oh :
Thats why i never cares. After all, all that pattern that had made me who i am today. Its might be bad, but at some point, thru their mistakes, we learn to be better. Thats how u learn in life
2026-07-30 07:00:10
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Jannah NMS :
that's why Moses cannot change his father's faith. that's why the pharaoh died in the red sea
2026-07-30 14:06:42
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bear 🧸 :
as a kid who was treated like a therapist for my mom since i was 8, NEVER act as a therapist when your parents are ranting and venting to you.
2026-07-30 15:48:41
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Beth :
setelah ibu meninggal saya sentiasa berusaha agar keluarga tetap utuh sehingga saya mengabaikan pelajaran dan kehidupan saya.. sekarang saya tidak lagi mahu seperti itu kerana saya sedar pada akhirnya yang terluka itu saya bukan mereka.
2026-07-30 10:04:23
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ultra dok man :
why a lot of people have bad parent ? my parents is not perfect, but really they are good people product of their time
2026-07-29 23:29:31
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gev'spov :
same with spouse?
2026-07-31 04:37:32
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Sq :
For some reason you are right. Sometimes the best way is just accept what they are rather than trying to change them
2026-07-30 01:02:26
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Apro :
Not trying to change your parents is the first step to protecting yourself. Core coping strategies include setting boundaries, limiting contact, and practicing self-care. Key methods for dealing with toxic parents include: Setting clear boundaries: Decide on what behaviors you can and cannot accept. When parents cross these boundaries, calmly but firmly leave or refuse. Limiting contact time: Shorten the duration of each interaction or phone call. Choosing to meet in public places or places where it's easy to leave. Practicing emotional detachment: Accepting the fact that they won't change. Not taking their criticism or emotional reactions as your responsibility.
2026-07-31 03:49:32
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a :
Needed this.
2026-07-30 05:54:59
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