@jeffrebehm: Why some people never want to date us. #Love #school #dating #research #relationships

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abbey41360
abbey :
Why don’t they think that though
2026-08-02 04:09:31
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brandazzly
B :
Well duh if they don’t want a relationship then you are not the fit all because you want one and they don’t
2026-08-01 21:52:35
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criminalsmoothie
🩵 :
Sorry, but sometimes there is literally not enough time passed to evaluate whether you two are a good fit. Sometimes people be just selfish assholes who want to take your time, energy without giving anything back.
2026-07-29 14:16:30
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nebula.witch
nebula.witch :
Relationships are more about each person’s capacity is something I’ve learned
2026-07-29 18:05:11
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jmacfierce1
Jennifer MacPherson :
connection and chemistry are why you start seeing someone. compatibility is why you stay with them. and maintaining all three is what keeps you together long term.
2026-07-29 14:20:43
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ughhh1235
Ughhh :
Yeah but the same people who claim you aren’t a good fit are the ones who didn’t put effort into seeing if you were a right fit. It’s BS. People will make any excuse instead of being accountable
2026-07-30 15:17:57
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3prinova
Priscilla :
Yeah that’s just taking advantage of someone if one feels confused and the other doesn’t. Unfortunately in situations like this the only one who cares is the one who walks away, and that’s never the narcissist who thinks everyone should be friends despite the fact it’s completely unhealthy
2026-07-29 20:15:17
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redpiper13
Piper :
A 4th thing: do I feel like I know you? I just don't want to date strangers. it's too much pressure to build a romance if we're not even friends yet.
2026-07-29 16:43:48
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cere_92
Triana :
True, but many use this as an excuse to just waste people’s time or take advantage. I get that compatibility long term is important, but it can not be assessed in the span of two weeks. If someone you just met tells you that they like you and like spending time with you but do not want anything serious, they are just playing.
2026-07-30 06:02:04
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southwestls
Southwest :
id say they didn't like you enough or didn't find you attractive enough simple as that.
2026-07-30 06:02:27
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fuu_lulu
fuu :
I had a crush on someone once who eventually told me all those things: thought I was attractive, loved hanging out with me, was very comfortable with casual flirting, etc. my brain was screaming with fireworks the entire time and I accepted that 'confession'. 3 months later absolutely nothing has come from it and he basically just went back to his normal programming including just being friendly towards me meanwhile I'm sitting there confused like.. you're telling me my first ever crush confession was THIS? I can't unknow these things and I just gotta sit there and act normal?! 😭 I want a refund
2026-07-29 22:01:28
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kat__404_
kat ᥫ᭡ :
in other words they are using you
2026-07-31 05:28:45
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cindrsoul
Katialiegh :
Try to not let them waste your time as well
2026-07-29 17:14:11
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darkwilde
D.W. :
Its why most will never value making honest, attractive friends. They want everyone like that to become a conquest. If not, they take it personally.
2026-07-29 15:38:03
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sandrakinyanjui3
sandra kinyanjui :
Why is this on my fyp
2026-07-29 20:10:12
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elainetalks
dislocated chronology :
i’m never gonna be a right fit
2026-07-30 14:00:11
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just_betty131
Just Betty :
6 dates, great time every time, complimented me, held my hand and was close every date. Then he told me he wasn't feeling the romantic feelings. I can't fault him for that.
2026-07-31 13:32:51
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redpiper13
Piper :
the fit is such an important thing. lifestyle compatibility is probably the most important factor these days. the whole cultural phenomenon about "protecting your peace" and it's better to be alone than in a bad relationship is so prevalent.
2026-07-29 16:45:11
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saywharadio
SayWHA Radio Network :
I think the reason people use those aspects to rate rejection is due to a lot of people feeling like one of those things should supercede everything else to spontaneously make a relationship form. Sometimes rejection is protection 🤷🏾‍♀️
2026-07-29 11:45:03
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shellystiktoktoday
Shelly :
We don’t ’all overlook’ this - lots of us are really interested in the fit 😳
2026-07-29 15:08:14
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babyhitme1moretime
No bio :
This just happened to me & I was so excited for the connection :/ I’m grateful for the experience and data moving forward.
2026-07-30 02:04:15
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rbca92
Reby24 :
what if we did date for 2 years and he still left?
2026-07-30 19:52:22
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manny_queen76
Manny_queen :
Then he simply didn’t like you enough. otherwise he would have made you fit into his life. Accept and move on👍🏻
2026-07-30 16:42:47
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kingsssman
Kingssman :
relationships are partnerships and sometimes everything clicks but the whole partnership part.
2026-07-30 01:53:15
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alissa_explainsitall
Alissa Fitzgerald :
Unconscious men are the problem
2026-07-30 03:34:28
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