@avafindscalm: You didn’t lose yourself all at once. It happened one compromise, one silencr, one I’m fine at a time. These 5 signs will tell you everything. Read it slowly #BookTok #traumatok #lostyourself #HealingJourney #selfreclamation

Lightning McQueef :

ai generated :(

Lee Campbell :

for everyone here, I spent the better part of my life completely masked to everyone. my wife called me a shell of a man one time, said It was like I didn't feel anything, and honestly I really couldn't figure out why or what I felt. I was depressed, anxious, stressed, lost. for me personally, I found out I had undiagnosed ADHD and now I can see the future for me and my family, now I can understand why my brain was shutting down, the burn out. and now I feel so much better and I'm set on re growing relationships, re building my business, and the most important part - growing with my family again. Some things are outside of your control, and if you feel like this, really try to find your symptoms, and get help. sometimes life is harder than it is actually suppose to be and it's outside of your control. usually if you've spent years masking it's hard to even recognize your symptoms. always try to think positive, stop calling yourself names, start exercising, even if all you can muster is a short walk. I wish everyone the best and I wish everyone here could find their way and enjoy their own brains instead of demising them.

•Alizabeth• :

I need one of these for those of us who were high achievers until something took the wind from our sails (for me it was cancer)and who now live in a body that doesn’t feel like ours and we’re having to grieve a life lost and learn how to live the life we’re left with

❌ShellyNuNChucks❌ :

I rebuilt. That’s how I found myself again 💜

witch_daddy :

Yeah but also need someone to tell me how to reverse it!

My Boys :

you know that is right but I chose me finally not even for me but for my nephew who had no one i bought us a house but not till his mom who didnt even care went to jail BUT IM REMEBERING SLOWLY BY HAVING PEOPLE HERE WHAT I ACTUALLY ENJOY BEING OUTSIDE LIKE MY NEPHEWS AND NEICES GIGGLING IN MY HOME I ENJOY BRINGING ALL OF US TOGETHER FAMILY THE LIFE MY PARENTS GAVE US G HUGE FAMILY BBQS THE TOGETHERNESS THE COUSINS THE CONNECTION I HAVE NO KIDS BUT I BOUGHT ME THIS LAND TO CREATE MY FAVORITE MEMORIES WITH MY FAMILY AND THEIRS

Zay H :

welp guess Im too broke to afford to fix it. 😅

powerwjfkog :

🥰🥰🥰😳😳😳😏😏😏🥰🥰🥰 that's exactly how I feel sometimes

WowBob :

This hit close

Mychell :

Just bought I really hope it helps

Toasted Hermit❌♌❌☯️❌ :

Thank you for sharing this. I've had this conversation with the reaper. I was about to cross the veil when I woke, and freind pulling me from the tub. After that I choose to stay. It's important to share with other humans. It's a we situation here on earth. I know that now.

Tallulah Swan :

I've been losing myself since I was a little girl. I'm almost 40. 😢

Mr Mischief :

I am but a simple actor, and the World is my Stage......like a chameleon, unless I want ye to, you'll ne'er see me.....

Let the sun shine through :

I did

Azy :

would be nice if it wasn't marketing

Ayame 🇺🇸 :

I'm slowly finding myself again. This past has been the worst for me

Thrashed☘️ :

NachAschenOne :

When All The Pieces Fell Away. Only The Best Were Left. 👌 Your Future Needs You More Than Your Past, Wake Up And Be Present. It's A Gift.

skzblack :

I did lose myself

Matt :

Lost myself a long time ago due to masking 24/7 just to be an accepted or loved. Used to joke how there’s different sides of me depending where I am/who I’m with. Now I know it was just masking to be accepted and try to not feel like the outcast

cindybaxter458 :

Yup

Mr.RSJ :

I lost myself last year. it's been a struggle since 😞

BRAND&CAM :

Me since I left college

Angela :

I lost myself because I legally couldn't do what I wanted to do. I am still trying to find my new self and I lucked out with a partner that supports my dumb butt.