“Choose the gator closest to the boat.” These are the nuggets that my brain can hold onto, and then recall these priceless lessons. When can I buy a book?
2026-07-29 13:32:46
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duppy :
“And you have to let them love you” GET OFF MY BACK, OK?!?! 😂😂
2026-07-29 19:33:02
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HoneyBadger :
Broke Trauma Tip: Contact your local seminary and university doctoral programs, continuing education programs for MSW and Counseling. Many of them have therapitizers who are working under supervision and need people in sinking boats to teach how to shoot gators. Call them. Ask for help. You’d be doing a good deed.
2026-07-29 17:38:48
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🍯Honey & Aloha🤙🏽🌺 :
Well damn, Mandy. That was a fast follow
2026-08-04 06:06:24
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😽 :
Ok but each of these things is incredibly hard
2026-07-29 19:31:50
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jess.k05 :
😳 Who else got called OUT
2026-07-31 02:20:39
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Laura Kelley :
“Shoot the gator closest to the boat.” 😭 That’s going on a t-shirt post haste.
2026-07-29 22:13:26
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Eddie :
Idk this sounds like a lot of
2026-08-02 13:52:18
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authenticallyadhdamy :
Excuse. Me. You did not have to come for me as a white lady therapist with divorced parents, a masters degree, and an office full of plants (somehow I can’t actually keep succulents alive).
2026-07-29 19:57:29
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Deiyonna 💕 :
needed this
2026-08-03 21:45:54
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yikesonbikes :
"SHOOT THE GATOR CLOSEST TO THE BOAT"
also emdr
2026-07-29 23:00:14
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Charlotte Uncharted :
Working on all 5 of these, not perfect. But I’ve been sober 60 days. Tiktok might be a bit hindering…. I’m working on reading more books
2026-07-30 13:55:12
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📚🪷Story time with Dory🪷🐾 :
3 weeks weed sober! 👏👏 It’s helping!
2026-08-03 22:38:20
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1NonlyApril :
Can I keep you ?
2026-08-04 03:23:09
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JessR :
You remind me of a likeable version of Ariana Grande... respectfully
2026-07-31 01:31:36
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Miss_Whitney_B Psychic Medium :
Excellent advice
2026-08-03 23:53:57
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user4345454832767 :
I have to be completely honest. This is soooo much easier to understand after living through it and almost impossible to understand beforehand.
2026-07-29 15:14:33
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user1747135801210 :
“Shoot the gator…” is gold!
2026-07-31 19:51:45
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Lawyer Wynton :
Shoot the gator closest to the boat!!! Bars!!!
2026-07-31 18:17:08
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in.play.we.trust :
ugh. fine.
2026-07-29 14:32:42
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🖤 :
I have all but #2. That's the hardest one
2026-07-29 13:34:22
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alittle_bird_toldme :
finding 2 people im not sleeping with but also love me?? where is this fantasy world
2026-07-29 16:37:24
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Melissa :
These are great but sometimes the numbing substance can’t be let go of without the others in place first. Having support, taking care of your body and therapy and some type of faith make it possible to put down the substance. I don’t write anyone off because they’re using, they need ppl and tools first🖤just my 2 cents but I love these and your delivery
2026-07-29 14:21:44
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CaleighLavenderJones :
I’m an MSW student who’s starting a clinical practicum in a few weeks and I’m definitely stealing “shoot the gator closest to the boat” 😂
2026-07-31 01:51:50
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