Opallauryn
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Wednesday 29 July 2026 13:28:01 GMT
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lolimkdng :
felt 😔 I have spent the last 5 months trying to stay away from my ex who I left for being a sneaky little weasel and every time he texts me to interrupt MY peace, I try to be kind and wish him the best. When he finally caught me on a bad day and I responded rudely for the first time.. I felt so much guilt after for saying some not so nice things but.. he was lying and being sneaky when we were in a relationship and we actually owed each other something lol.. did he ever feel bad for THAT?! I am too empathetic.
2026-07-29 23:23:43
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Jai Loam :
I found the true reward for playing by the rules Is the ability to look myself in the eyes in the mirror and know that I did my best and that I didn't hurt anybody. it pays dividends everyday, hopefully you can take some pride in how strong you were through this ♥️
2026-07-30 02:51:22
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Shane :
Rant away ma’am, we all need it sometimes. You hit the point you won’t give an inch for anyone or have you moved past that point?
2026-07-29 22:40:09
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lydiakia :
There is no reward for being a “good women” in fact the traits encouraged to make you “good” makes and keeps you vulnerable.
2026-07-29 15:55:54
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no thank u :
going through something very similar rn- i get mad about the same stuff and so so frustrated with him but ultimately what i remind myself is, i play by the rules for myself and myself alone. i feel better knowing im a good person, regardless of how shitty my ex was and continues to be, it only proves absolutely no one can bring me down to their level, because i am a good person who will continue to do the right thing solely for the sake of it being the right thing. does it suck that there are just terrible people out there that will take advantage of us just because they can.? yes, obviously. but just because they are bad people does not mean we have to stoop. youre the only one that has to live with yourself, and i hope they have to live knowing how awful they truly are.
2026-07-29 19:39:03
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dctkelli :
Did you notice that he was the kind of person who was just perpetually dissatisfied with his life? And always seeking for something or changing things continually to “find” happiness? But once he got what he wanted the happiness was short lived and he was on to the next thing that would magically make his life better?
2026-07-29 15:19:56
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Cynfullarts.ca🇨🇦 :
don't give respect to those who don't deserve it. you got this
2026-07-29 13:36:29
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Debbie Seccombe :
I hope things work out in the end. As long as he’s in your life he will wield whatever control he can. I’ve basically went no contact with my ex after I found out that he had been spying on my phone friend
2026-07-29 18:01:07
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Katie Habert :
Right there with you. I have the house we bought with the mortgage we couldn’t afford, trying to sell it all the while she stopped contributing and is now living in a big beautiful new house with the sidechick playing house with her new fake family while I’m drowning. Also I’m being blamed for the house not selling and sidechick had the nerve to tell me I’m just mad because my ex isn’t finding my lifestyle anymore. What lifestyle????? I’ve done nothing but work to try to make ends meet, and they go on vacations, dinners out, lots of gifts, so much of which was purchased with our common money for months. It was so disappointing and disgusting. Now I’m facing bankruptcy and foreclosure all because I fell in love. And it was all my money that went into the house, yet I’m going to come away with nothing. So frustrating. 😞 I just try to tell myself that I know who I am, and while I hate what was done to me, at least I know I’m not like them and I’d never do this to anyone. And I’m responsible for what I do next so I can lay down and shrink and become bitter or I can leave them to the misery that will inevitably be their life. A lot easier said than done though. 😞
2026-07-29 14:33:27
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B :
I'm going through something similar with my ex. We were together for ten years and by the end of it he resented me and the life that he had agreed to participate in. He made being together so unvearable I had no choice but to leave him and now he's playing the victim because "I left him" technically... I have some of my stuff at his house that he was allowing me to keep there until I got settled at my new place. He acts like he's going to let me come get it then cancels last minute. It is very frustrating but I remind myself this is just the last bit of control he has so he's exercising it. I hate feeling like I have to play nice to avoid losing my possessions though, one final degradation of self 🙃
2026-07-29 14:50:26
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Marisa The Dog Therapist :
Going through the same thing. Once the divorce is finalized he might find some sugar in his gas tank.
2026-07-30 01:55:51
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