@hopefulromanticdating: Creepiness is a choice. 1. A choice to believe that you’re creepy (our beliefs create a self fulfilling prophecy that makes it true) You think you’re creepy, so you act more timidly, which comes across as creepy The you get negative feedback, which confirms for your brain that you are in fact creepy 2. A choice to not learn the skills that will help you NOT be creepy Talking to women (and socializing in general) is less about WHAT you’re doing and more about HOW you’re doing it You can ask someone out respectfully or disrespectfully Attractively or unattractively Creepily or smoothly Get it out of your head that you can’t talk to women bro You’re just bad at it right now That’s okay! There’s no shame in starting from the bottom There is shame in staying there Decide what matters to you in life and prioritize it with action If you want the approach framework that I used when I was single to get dates without coming across creepily, comment “framework” and I’ll happily send it to you .. Become the version of yourself who attracts the relationship of your dreams #datingadvice #datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #socialskills #datingsuccess
