natalie louise
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Wednesday 29 July 2026 16:09:22 GMT
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VALERIA🏳️🌈🧿✨ :
The WORST part of all of this is you don’t realize they are an avoidant until you already fallen for them. Letting them go get so much harder at that point.
2026-07-31 15:17:52
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_iuli-papi_ :
100% right. Exactly what happened. I saw it as a red flag but looked past it cause it seemed so real. Thought we were falling in love. And once I did, the switch happened.
2026-07-29 20:58:43
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Hugo Hietbrink :
They want to feel wanted, without commitment. Selfish
2026-07-30 15:47:46
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SniperX2021 :
Don't get too attached to people
2026-07-30 04:42:27
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Squimm Group :
Avoidant attachment plus ADHD has made my dating life a living nightmare. I hate being this way
2026-07-29 16:39:19
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iamjohn101 :
what if you just let them chase you on and on
2026-09-19 13:12:46
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Shimerexoxo :
Got courted, I starting letting my guard down, things were amazing…. The BOOM GHOSTED! I feel terrible, embarrassed and confused AF! He could have just let me alone!! Why get me false hope! I hate it here
2026-08-04 20:10:11
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wickedslice2 :
It’s a horrible way to breakup. She broke up with me via text. It’s showed me her true colors. I thought we were doing great and boom she just went dark on me.
2026-07-29 16:51:12
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Tiasamuda 🏳️🌈 :
Had the nerve to tell me i was too much and it’s overwhelming ‼️‼️😭😭😭😭
2026-07-31 12:26:39
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ashleywiendl :
Ok but what’s it mean when he discarded me, I became very anxious wanting closure and he blocked me then boom unblocked me on Facebook and now is steady watching my stories
2026-07-29 16:57:42
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Rachael Plays Guitar :
It’s sooooo textbook
2026-07-29 22:16:14
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Kiki68305 :
Or not even a text and being ghosted 🤣
2026-07-29 23:19:20
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Thabang Phill🇿🇦 :
Once you meet someone who has on and off switch, do yourself a favor and remove yourself, that is called self love because avoidants are not special than yourself... I thank you
2026-08-13 03:12:34
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Rafael Ferreira :
I just wish they could feel loved and safe without complications :( they don’t even know how good they can be
2026-08-03 23:13:40
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Erika B :
This is so accurate. Two years with an avoidant and my nervous system is completely wrecked
2026-07-30 02:53:14
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NA :
They destroy and ruiin your life
2026-08-05 06:59:11
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alianna💕 :
I’ve never heard someone describe exactly how I feel & perceive things until now. Isolation always feels safer but it’s not really what I want..
2026-07-31 03:09:28
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Lycan :
Avoidants are the worst
2026-07-31 12:50:18
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Tori Jones :
Exactly what happened to me😭
2026-07-29 20:21:44
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🖤 :
Avoidants protect their comfort, vulnerability and options. It’s childish and selfish, move on. They refuse to face their wound so they will waste your time if you let them.
2026-08-24 14:24:31
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user8628812350791 :
Sounds kinda sick.
2026-07-30 18:30:33
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Tim Franklin :
They ghost now. They just up and disappear…with no closure.
2026-07-31 03:20:43
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WJW :
Then they Run Away..
2026-07-29 20:59:41
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✨keeks✨ :
You explained this so well. I experienced this a few months ago. Was a total mind fck
2026-07-29 22:58:23
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🫧 :
This is insanely accurate. I didn’t even know these styles existed until it happened to me. In my case they have genuinely stepped up and we have had multiple conversations about communication and we have been able to meet in the middle for the most part. They still ghost randomly when they are at capacity in other aspects of life but it’s very short and less frequent compared to how it was before. Also in my case, when I pull back slightly they instantly notice and will lean in pretty hard but it has taken me and continues to take me a lot to get use to pulling back. I’ve been much better and it’s been easier to do but as an anxious person it’s hard to be consistent when anxiety is stupor day to day. I’m grateful at least for me they do show up and they do try instead of just leaving or letting distance grow.
2026-07-30 00:26:12
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