@v.aegirsdottir: Well, here we are, in the early stages of The After. I would give anything to have my friend back but knowing that I can’t, I will continue to share what friendship with her was like, how it shaped me, and how I’m living life with her beside me cheering me on. We’re gonna be ok. #grief #rebeccaluna #maid #alzheimers #journaling
I can see how you two were bffs for so long. Two peas in a pod. Thank you for sharing your journey too. Rebecca was so damn cool.
2026-07-29 17:56:28
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Sara Youngblood-Ochoa, she/her :
Is it weird that I miss her? 😢
2026-07-29 21:51:59
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Gizmo81 :
Thank you for sharing your grief journey with us.
2026-07-31 12:06:51
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Dana 🇨🇦 🇩🇪 :
do you think she would be shocked at how her story is trending everywhere. So many news stations, radio, social media... her story is really out there.
2026-07-30 00:24:32
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Cheryl Stanley🇨🇦🇨🇦HONK :
My thoughts are with you, thank you for sharing your journey
2026-07-31 15:06:24
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Amanda :
You posting about her is helpful to all of our healing. She was amazing.
2026-07-31 07:44:55
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Heather 🤍 :
I miss her videos. I could tell she was a hoot! ❤️❤️❤️
2026-07-29 23:12:16
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Rhonda Parker823 :
It’s so weird in a really good way. You two are like twins from another mother. I’ve never saw 2 people talk the same way, say the same things ❤️
2026-07-31 17:30:18
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White Swan :
I really wish I had such a friend, like YOU🥰
2026-07-29 19:50:31
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hannahj277 :
If it’s too personal ignore this but are you going to keep in touch with Rebecca’s family?
2026-07-29 20:42:25
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Marie Et Bernard Rob :
❤️❤️❤️this made me cry 😢 bless you!
2026-07-31 14:02:49
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babydoll :
im so sry 😞 hugs to you
2026-07-30 17:27:26
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Ingenmarie :
The great thing about love is that it has no end. Even if it hurts (and it does now) no one can take it from you. ♥️
2026-07-29 19:21:26
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Jennifer :
I’m so glad we found you. I feel like we didn’t get to know Rebecca long enough and this somehow keeps her with us and learning more about her. Thank you.
2026-07-29 21:56:25
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Lovely Night 🇨🇦🇮🇷🍉 :
it's interesting, I hope this helps, watching some of your other videos I noticed that you and she have some very similar mannerisms and tones in your voice! so you carry her all the time with you.
2026-07-31 02:24:18
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The DINO nuggies :
I still have a candle burning for her. its one of those big 7 day long candles and I just dont have the heart to extinguish it.
I miss her popping up on my feed.
keep moving through your greif 🤍 thank you for keeping her memory alive
2026-07-30 00:33:05
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Melody H. :
I'm so sorry for your tremendous loss. I'm new to y'all's story. I appreciate that you are sharing how you are dealing with your grief. My dad had Dementia and passed away just over 3 years ago. It's such a long goodbye. You grieve before they pass, then after. Sending hugs your way as you begin your journey without out BFF present physically. I can tell that your friendship was one that most of us never experience. I'm so happy for you that you have so many good memories to help you through the tough times. Take care.
2026-07-30 05:53:18
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ᐹᐡᑭᐠᐘᒼᐠᐍ/ девора :
something i was always taught.. when you miss a loved one, write them a letter and seal it with wax, or simply fold it and put it under your pillow at night. Your consciousness transcends during sleep and your message will get to her 💝
2026-07-29 21:25:58
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Jazz :
This is so beautiful. I’m often thinking about you both. I hope you’re doing okay beyond just grieving… I’ve seen how many major news outlets are covering Rebecca’s story. That’s a lot of attention on her and her loved ones, including you. I truly hope you’ve got the best support system and you’re able to handle such a surreal time right now.
It’s not exactly the same but I had a dear friend of mine pass away suddenly in December and she had a lot of media attention due to the nature of her job and the people she worked with. I ended up in the news because of it, too. And that was very weird… because I’ve grieved people before, including my dad, but this made it a bigger challenge to grieve, so I’m really thinking about you right now, as well as all of Rebecca’s loved ones. 🤍
2026-07-29 19:33:20
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Annette Doucet :
This is how I never let my daughter go. I write to her everyday for the past 12 years and counting ❤️🥰❤️
2026-07-29 23:24:49
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Margarita🍹 :
Keep writing Vanessa, Rebecca is with you as you are doing it 🥰💝
2026-07-29 19:31:53
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Launa :
Grief is love with nowhere to go-Jamie Anderson.
2026-07-30 06:20:43
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The New Road Productions :
4-ever
2026-07-29 18:13:19
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Beccy & Andrew :
Brilliant! I love the idea of it being notes being passed. It is a perfect description. Just as we wrote notes, doodled and sent pictures this journal is the adult version that will help you get through this difficult journey. You were, are and will always be the dynamic duo. ❤️❤️
2026-07-29 18:55:13
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❌ Kimberly _74 ❌ :
I love this idea. I admire the friendship you both had
2026-07-29 21:37:49
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