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RaeganKing :

2. Also ensures you BOTH keep your identities outside of being someone’s spouse and losing who YOU are!

Transformaaa 💋 :

I never thought we all should live together. If we do, you gotta live on the other side of the house

naturalpinup :

This is why half of my relationship say I’m coldhearted cause I think like this lol 😂

AuntieJey💰Building to $1M :

I’ve always said I wanted separate residences and people think I’m crazy 😭

Bmoredarkness :

Prenup all the way; it doesn't matter how much you make. I didn't think I needed one when I was making 45k, but he showed his ass.

Kim :

I agree with everything but I would counter on the 2 houses. If possible, maybe buy a bigger property and have separate bedrooms.

Kristi Kirk :

Separate bedrooms have been nice😊

Sun butter :

Me and my husband live separately, and it work for us🤭🤭.

Debtcrushingmama| Money Coach :

I agree! But I want his separate household to be next door to me 😂

tiff_nayyyy :

Everything about this!!!!! I work in the legal field and idc how much “I love you” I see it day in and day out how messy and nasty ppl can be in divorce. Prenup no matter WHAT you make! Hopefully you’ll never need it but if you do, it helps tremendously! I also support the separate houses. I love that man and we’ve discussed moving into together but there’s absolutely no rush!! I love my space and he loves his. We have enough time to love and miss each other snd the relationship also just feels better! Heavy on the solo trips too. Baby I be GONE 😂😂😂😂

Jenn Summers :

I know 2 married couples with separate residency. They’re more happy

Alia :

When I say I want separate house or rooms people think I’m crazy. I need my space and I need to miss you

Anthony Woods520 :

Love You Kid!!!

Daija ﾒ𝟶 :

THERAPY needs to be all five. Kidding but I actively do all these things except separate living arrangements & it keeps me sane and still in love.

HeyGirlHey :

I would love to share a duplex with my partner. Also, I know a couple that got a pre-nup to protect their assets and to protect each other from their individual debt - hers was law school loans and his was business debt.

All things KNB :

Heavy on #2 and 3!!!

diamond asia :

I would love separate housing! That would be nice.

kiwi__arts42 :

Separate bedrooms yes but not separate housing I like being close with my partner I'd basically be driving every day to see them and thats just a gas hog

Mojena 💕 :

# 2 is a no for me.

Gomezsa208 :

Yesssssssssss

denetta :

My husband and I encourage each other to take solo trips and have that time to decompress, relax and reconnect with ourselves. It’s necessary.

Just Kelli | Unfiltered :

My husband and I do all these things and have all these things, but separate housing . It’s critical!!

Elsa❄️ :

I’ve done a few solo trips while in my relationship and can absolutely say 10/10 individuality is soooo important and I get super excited to tell all the stories!!!!

Chad Denick :

Living in LA makes the 2 addresses idea the funniest thing I've heard all year. The version we can do is our own bedrooms though.

Quiet Storm :