Jay Gomez
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Thursday 30 July 2026 03:31:52 GMT
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no1weedconsumer :
Unfortunately a lot of people do not have the emotional intelligence or self awareness for this.
2026-08-30 20:42:43
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The Commons :
The problem is "Hard conversations" aren't always warranted or necessary. Just because you or someone wants to have a hard conversation with you, doesn't mean you or they are always correct/valid.
2026-08-28 18:42:26
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ADHDee 🏳️⚧️ :
I did this, and they say everything is fine when it's clearly not
2026-08-27 18:26:13
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Gato 🍉🍝🌎 :
A lot of people in these comments don’t seem emotional mature enough to understand this concept. I keep seeing people say they rather just leave a relationship/friendship instead of having these types of conversations and it’s just…yikes
2026-08-29 15:54:49
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Nope :
NOT EVERY CONVERSATION IS AN ARGUMENT!
2026-09-02 23:02:42
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restless.epileptic :
A ton of bean soup theory and people who are too emotionally immature to reason with feelings of discomfort in these comments 💀
2026-08-31 11:17:01
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crayon :
Communication is one of the most important things in any relationship. Hard conversations are NEVER You VS Them, but You and Them VS The Problem !!!
2026-08-28 16:16:56
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Belladona6030 :
And a reminder that if people are willing to just drop you because they want to avoid a hard conversation, they in fact don't value you or the relationship. Hard times happen, arguments happen, that's normal and why communication is key. But if you're not willing to talk them through and work on it together, what's wrong then what's the point? You clearly don't care.
2026-08-31 17:00:44
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Scw1997 :
now reminder that while this is correct, it is not the same thing as someone calling you into a conversation just to tell you all the reasons they dont like you. if the goal is not reconciliation, the conversation is not worth having.
2026-09-01 20:10:40
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britany :
Great now put this on HIS FYP
2026-08-29 01:02:48
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max v 🌵 :
the reason I’m not for everyone is because I’m an “address the elephant in the room” kinda person and people don’t like it
2026-08-30 14:27:24
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SubtleSideeye :
It’s hard when you bring up something that upset you and the response is to deflect and defend instead of being curious.
2026-09-04 05:31:58
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Kial Wade :
My biggest pet peeve is being told they don’t want to fight when I’ve just voiced how I’m feeling I feel this so much.
2026-09-04 13:11:01
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MeiMei :
Yes communication works if the other person is willing to understand/ listen to understanding and not just respond, otherwise it would just be like talking to a wall.
2026-09-03 13:37:48
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Plus Ultra!💥💫❇️ :
if you’re above the age of 17, you should be able ti have a tough conversation
2026-08-28 23:40:54
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waylon !! :
I will always have the hard conversations, not to win but to come to an understanding. If the other refuses and acts out or distances thats that. Whether I was right or wrong I do not tolerate people who won’t communicate and I won’t waste time with it. If they approach me to try again I’ll listen.
2026-08-31 06:59:32
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struggle.bunnies :
i tried to tell a friend they disrespected me and I felt I was owed an apology. he blocked me after ten paragraphs of anger and excuses. RIP to that friendship
2026-09-01 17:11:35
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Ash 🜄 :
A lot of people need to realize discomfort ≠ harm, being uncomfortable and doing hard things is a necessary part of being an adult and requires a lot of emotional maturity which unfortunately many lack
2026-09-04 17:36:39
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CareBaer24 :
I told a coworker of a certain age that I greatly respect her expertise in her area and I wish when she’s with me that she valued my knowledge in my expertise equally. She gave me the silent treatment for a week.
2026-09-01 17:46:06
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MokiHunter :
The amount of friends I’ve lost bc I brought something up that upset me and they immediately went super defensive like I was trying to start something… I always do what I would want done for me. If I upset someone I’d want them to tell me even if it bothers me in the moment because I’d rather fix it now than feel absolutely awful that I’d been doing whatever it was for ages.
2026-09-04 14:37:51
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Heather :
Tbh I wouldn’t even bother having an uncomfortable conversation if I didn’t care.
2026-09-04 17:59:50
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I’m coming to the cottage :
I want to have these conversations, because if I’m doing something that’s upsetting you, then LET ME KNOW. Call me out (nicely) bc I grew up in a household where my mom would give us the silent treatment and guilt trip you into just doing what she wants. I get so anxious when ppl are mad at me and just ignore me and don’t wanna talk things out.
2026-08-31 21:21:21
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spacecowbcy7 :
Inversely if they used to want to talk to you and stopped it’s bc they gave up trying to reason w you and in turn needed to stop caring so much
2026-08-30 11:38:38
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Såsigkun :
Tell that to a dismissive avoidant
2026-09-04 15:18:23
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lauren claire 🇵🇭 :
What about someone who only wants to have the "difficult conversations" that they want to have? Like they are not open to hearing the hard things that I wanna talk about
2026-09-01 01:35:43
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