It’s ADHD and executive dysfunction with amazing people skills and being smart but lacking action. We are working on it and getting medicated.
2026-07-30 19:26:40
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my_oh_my_oh_my :
When a system rewards polish and not competence, you get polished incompetence. 🤷🏾♀️
2026-07-30 16:27:49
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ongekendnl0 :
I was this person for over two years . I was mentally checked out and had no idea what I was doing. I hid it well. I made sure I always looked polished because if I looked okay, maybe no one would notice I wasn’t.
I learned how to navigate office politics and built relationships with the right people just to keep my head above water.
Looking back, it was one of the darkest periods of my life. From the outside, it probably looked like I had it together. Inside, I was barely holding on. The money was good, and that’s what kept me there far longer than it should have.
2026-07-30 12:28:34
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Nephtali :
I wont lie. There cant be a more ideal position. I dont wanna come to work to work. I come to work to get a paycheck. If I could convince everyone I was useful then do nothing, I would without a shred of shame😂
2026-07-30 18:50:17
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😵💫😵💫😵💫 :
Some of us are really great organizers, planners, and facilitators but not great executors. 😅
2026-07-30 19:29:33
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Kasia :
the creative geniuses who would be running their own business or creating art in different economy, but are forced to make reports about how many reports they made
2026-07-30 14:08:34
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paranormal 🪖 soldier :
Larping corporate.
2026-07-30 13:37:58
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Suzanne Kurtzer Minton :
Yup. I’ve met these people. They do surprisingly well in corporate America.
2026-07-31 23:14:29
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Lena :
You said that the person is a strong communicator, represents the team well and leads meetings with ease. Doesn’t sound like they’re doing nothing to me.
2026-07-30 22:27:18
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Bvelvet :
Sounds like they’re destined for executive leadership
2026-07-31 08:50:22
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MoragEyrie :
I aspire to be this person in my last years before retirement. I think I'm entitled after professional working for over 40 years.
2026-07-30 11:21:01
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vitya_i_zvery :
No hate, I want to be them
2026-07-30 15:57:43
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bouillonaire.bb :
This was me between 2020-2024 - working health care in covid and having a string of significant deaths in my life. Sometimes it’s a way to hide burnout - creating space to recover after prolonged work stress.
2026-07-31 22:50:28
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✨Dulce Maria✨ :
They are good at BS
2026-07-31 12:28:11
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Xixoioxix :
Sounds like that person made the same money as you with a lot less effort. Good for them; don’t be a sucker who works harder than necessary.
2026-07-31 19:17:29
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Jonas :
it’s untreated ADHD😂
2026-07-31 20:16:22
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Bijijijiji :
😂😂😂 I aspire to be this person.
2026-07-30 12:49:07
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unbothered_nini :
As a former hardworking person, I'm training to become polished.
2026-07-31 04:00:38
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user6111305745342 :
That was me when I realized that I had the WORST ADHD
2026-07-30 18:45:27
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ashyp :
It’s people playing the corporate game
2026-07-31 08:40:43
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rafikplz 🍉 :
why would they work hard in someone else's company?
2026-07-31 13:11:38
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Conmig :
I hate this convo, hating the player is crazy to me. I can’t stand people who get on people for not being a bootlicker
2026-07-31 12:10:10
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Sunshine :
Unless their lack of work directly affects me, I let those people usually be tbh. There is a reason they’ve been there for years
2026-07-30 18:04:25
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Paul Yates1842 :
Surely they are just playing a terrible system. Maybe it’s the ones who care too much about the company/ job who you should be suspicious of
2026-07-31 13:55:21
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