@tryingourbest.talk: Dating Apps and The Avoidant Trap #heartbreak #datingadvice #avoidant #healing #relationshipadvice

judocel :

have fun approaching women in literally any environment when its completely frowned upon now, and everyone is on dating apps now

yaroray :

sydney :

omfg im dead u seriously think social media drove women to become majority avoidant

Bartix06 :

anxious/ avoidant is just how much value we percieve that other person has, nobody is anxious for a person they dont care about. It all comes down to meeting a person that makes other one fully ,,sure" Avoidance is fear of missing out, knowing that theres possibility of meeting someone better and current person is just wasting time

Phillip omm :

You have 3 million iq, man

maggd :

Water take but most of our peers dont get it

Bendahlmma :

I don’t know man I’m a guy and I couldn’t imagine not living by myself and having to live with the same person for the rest of my life, I have a good social life and communication skills. I don’t know if that makes me “avoidant” but it’s just the way I am.

Alex :

I’m avoidant 😅

ian4901 :

I remember I had someone who liked me first reached out first and said they wanted to date ghost me for 3 days to “detox”

l :

It‘s not just the culture. If you actually look into the psychology textbooks you will find that a major driver of attachment is a child’s attachment to their primary caretaker. Now it most cases that would be the mother. What do you think happens if that mother becomes only intermittently available after a few months already? Now do with that information what you like

jstott18☭ :

how am I the 14%?????

Environmentalism :

Source ?

. :

your right

Ash :

blackspiderguyadvice :

true

Jet :

agreed

zw.krabs 🌲 :

source?

correct :

just be gay bro it's not that hard

AFGroyp🤔 :

Hypergamy is the reason