Speak up for yourself, speak up for others thats the core of manhood
2026-07-30 11:33:59
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Frederic Lee :
Confrontation gives me a drug like feeling
2026-07-30 18:19:58
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j__rhodes :
dads are so important. in a world full of males, men are rare asf.
2026-07-30 18:01:29
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Tweezer :
Not being a dick, Just not being a push over
2026-07-30 11:12:33
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SecretPsychology :
Your dad had leverage with the bank, so being confrontational worked out to his advantage. So the point is, if you have leverage, be confrontational; if you don't, you need to focus on gaining leverage.
2026-07-30 21:57:16
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Kyle :
Definitely a time and place for it, don’t be the guy that is confrontational over every little thing it’s exhausting
2026-07-31 15:20:49
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zlexy :
being confrontational is pointless most times
2026-07-30 11:23:01
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Recovering_Oreo_Addict :
Every major event in human history was sparked by confrontation. It is necessary for survival
2026-07-30 18:28:13
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dan :
Men do this and get praised but women do it and get called Karens…
2026-07-31 13:17:33
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groovypot :
I think assertive is the word you’re looking for here
2026-07-30 20:42:18
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billymaysshamwow :
Yes, but part of it is your dad had leverage (multiple accounts). If your’e going to be confrontational you need some leverage too, otherwise you’re just a crazy guy yelling at a bank teller.
2026-07-30 13:48:07
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Tez12 :
Some people love confrontation but aren't prepared for violence. People who are prepared for violence, are the most humble and respectful.
2026-07-30 20:55:12
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Nawtycookiemonster :
Bro exactly the same situation with me. An example I always think of is sometimes I’d have trouble getting my cat to get out of a certain place and my dad would always just come in and shift her whether he was bitten or not but the lesson to me permeated all my dads actions in someway and that was sometimes you gotta let your hand get bit by the cat to get what you want and it might come with some pains but you’ll be alright.
2026-08-02 08:32:27
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ryanaway :
sometimes you gotta to get ur point across
2026-08-02 13:51:35
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American Kitty :
Consider your privilege, please. You were told “No” because THAT is the policy. “No” is what EVERYONE is told. The only reason YOU were refunded YOUR fees is because: a 1.) man with 2.) significant money (ALL of our accounts will be pulled) insisted upon you. I’ve had hundreds in overdraft fees years ago, same situation. I fought, it didn’t matter. And things like THIS can start the snowball of not being able to get out of the hole.
2026-08-01 12:36:39
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Caressa (Trenity) :
I hate conflict but I will DEFINITELY confront yo ass.
2026-08-01 06:14:20
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RossTheBoss :
My father is a blessing in many ways he is the same as the story you’ve shared while also in many ways being different. God bless all fathers and the young they raise
2026-08-01 18:07:52
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jenni 🤎 :
my dad taught me the same haha
2026-08-01 19:53:24
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Greatestbskt :
To a degree but don’t go around acting entitled with this type of advice 🚩🚩🚩🚩
2026-07-31 02:38:53
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harvey.pritchard4 :
He had leverage in that situation
2026-07-30 11:25:10
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Joseph Swinnerton :
It’s a double edged sword my friend. Bet you never heard the amount of times your dad got in trouble for being that way
2026-07-31 05:42:33
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Nick Hutchins :
I pulled everything out of Wells Fargo for a similar reason. They called my bluff and I closed a cd and 4 different accounts that day. They are the worst bank.
2026-08-01 04:23:33
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ymcmb112000 :
The bank example is great but you were wrong???? Bank lady was right
2026-07-30 17:58:34
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liam.howzey :
My family is very non-confrontational to the point it harms us and me just because they are scared of confrontation. So many seats at public events lost, opportunities lost, man countless things all because it’s like they’re scared. I try step up and be the guy that WILL be confrontational and they start reprimanding me when I’m completely justified. So insanely frustrating
2026-07-31 12:24:20
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Shamar Holloway :
idk ppl be ready to end your life for the smallest things nowadays.
2026-08-01 00:06:56
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