Dating a healing avoidant will force this on you really quickly..
2026-08-01 05:52:53
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nostradama :
Exiting all enmeshed friendships rn. And let me tell you, they don’t like that.
2026-07-31 12:32:42
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Hillary :
Yessss!!! Scapegoated out of an enmeshed group threw me into an intense healing journey! The enmeshment wasn’t the cure! Loving myself was!
2026-07-31 02:52:19
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Sid :
Me the last four years knowing it’s for the best but scraping the walls of my self-imposed enclosure nevertheless
2026-07-31 07:17:42
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Tara Joon :
WOW well said 👏 Thank you!! “You will survive” 💗
2026-07-31 14:10:09
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Swimmingintheseaswimwithme :
If you have a LOT of deep conversations for about a decade you can! I’ve been with my partner for 24 years and have 3 daughters and our tight weave has loosened. In a healthy way. It’s had its trials though. I was from a very abusive family and his house was unpredictable x so we escaped into each other x
2026-07-30 20:07:30
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user122251550821 :
But it's not enough the self. I need intimacy and care and connection from others as well as myself. The isolation is what's hard. I need people to share life with, I value connection. It matters. I don't want it to have all the power over my happiness but it also matters a lot.
2026-07-30 20:52:23
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Liz McComb :
Thank you so much for putting this process into words. It is so hard, so long, so painful, and so incredibly worth it.
2026-07-31 04:19:44
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