I'm 23 and I'm lost. I don't know how to get out of this. Every day and every night is a constant mental pain, especially when people around bring up topics or scenarios that affect my future or who I really want to be. Help
2026-08-04 18:20:45
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⋆。゚☁︎。 𝓐𝓼𝓽𝓻𝓸 。 ゚☾ ゚。⋆ :
This is so me, I really don’t know who I am, or what I want to do in life, for example, I already graduated from school and I don’t even know what my dream job is or what I’m suitable for
2026-07-30 14:42:23
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random_dudw :
i feel so lost to the point i choose to gap year even tho i alr passed some university. I don't really know what i want and everything's just a mess
2026-08-05 05:14:32
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dise :
that's why. I've been doing things just to be seen growing up, trying to fit-in in places where they want me to be, thinking it was meant for me. Now I easily get confused, one moment I thought this is that but the next thing I know I'm lost again..
2026-08-05 12:49:58
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~•..Luna..•~ :
i was so eager to be loved and accepted by others that i forgot who truly i am.....its a slap on the face
2026-08-05 03:18:27
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aleas :
I grew up always obeying what my parents told me, putting others first, and thinking that what other people say matters. And now, I'm in deep hell because I don't really know who I am.
2026-08-05 16:59:39
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ipis :
in ph, this is how most of the breadwinners feel.
2026-08-04 09:27:28
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aiia.aia :
dangggg already had my degree but not sure if that was the job for me, i wanted to try so many things like, be in each profession at some point, but i don't know what's really suitable for me, the one that could push me to my fullest potential, that kinda stuff
2026-08-03 23:07:28
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reinmfriend :
still can't figure out ..
2026-08-04 12:17:18
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🇵🇭 :
I read this in one of my favorite stories: if you don't know what you truly want in life or what you want to become, it means you'll die young. That's why there's no point wasting time thinking about it, because it's useless anyway.
2026-08-02 22:37:08
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Graf Zaahl :
interesting fact
2026-07-30 16:04:06
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༒$ø¥༒ :
Im 27 and still I don't know what I really want to be. I took engineering but I didn't want it. been working for 4 year since graduation after pandemic, I hate to admit that I haven't achieved anything that I can say Im proud of. But I had a realization, that life is truly a race and we cannot compare our own pace with others.
2026-07-31 07:39:45
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DIY with Ara :
in my 20s and I don’t know what I want☹️
2026-07-31 22:43:10
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𐙚˙⋆.˚ ᡣ𐭩 :
‘di ba pwedeng lampake lang talaga sa buhay
2026-08-05 14:54:25
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Ela Cel :
The hardest part would be when you have become nothing and achieved nothing as you grow old, and when you reason out it’s bec you grew up being told what to do, what to achieve, etc… the blame goes back at you.
2026-08-03 17:02:03
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Bro Red-Pakar MedCard :
I know i just want money. I work for it. But sometimes i dont know what to do with the money except eat eat eat😅
2026-07-30 17:33:34
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ǰĥən̈ :
are u talking to me.
2026-08-04 00:08:08
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no_one :
Im 30 and still dont know what I want
2026-08-02 20:46:15
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Shaun Epiha_Holtz :
wow
2026-08-01 09:26:22
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veruexe :
It’s not that I don’t know who i am, now at 22 i just say I like everything and so it is, even if I don’t enjoy something at the beginning my mind adapts, and yes, mainly because from childhood struggling making friends I became the one interested in everyone’s interests. Sometimes it’s hard, other times u accept who u are becoming.
2026-07-30 16:05:49
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ptricxia :
I don't have favorite color, food, and drinks. I don't have any dream course or job.
2026-07-30 17:35:17
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Jl Losmac :
The answer is simple build yourself, your identity or your ego but remember if you started late you have to have more drive than the others.
2026-08-01 19:02:08
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Jacqueline Rose :
I dont have a dream. I just live the same routine everyday. I dont know what I want in life.I dont have a drive to be "sucessfull" i rot in my bed and office everyday
2026-08-05 09:49:18
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Jeamarie⊙⊝⊜ :
and guess what I don't even know myself anymore
2026-08-06 01:52:07
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zula :
ts so real, i actually don't know who I am
2026-08-05 16:32:20
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