@ask_julia: Don’t confuse a nice guy with a good guy… There is a huge difference #DatingAdviceForWomen #DatingAdviceForTheLad #niceguysfinishlast

Yari :

Nice is weak. Go with somebody who’s not scared to hurt people’s feelings

scaredycatguide :

Yep, being a nice person is not good, being a good person is where it's at.

Manny’s Preaching :

As a guy, I’ve been a “nice guy” before and yes women will like you for it but they will not be attracted by it. I started to learn how to be a good guy by setting boundaries, standing up for myself, and NOT putting others before me especially at work.

🎋🍒 :

We need kind, nice is A$S kisser and very toxic to be around 😏

Drewsirr03 :

Her only experience with a nice guy was a bad guy, pretending to be good. Some people enjoy being nice to others. It’s not always performing.

Angela :

Your eyes are clearer and more beautiful than the waters of Hawaii

Aaron :

As someone who's a bit on the spectrum I genuinely couldn't understand the distinction and this is comforting. Being kind has never been performative and it felt like a slap on the face if even THAT is problematic

《♡》 :

thank you auntie, ❣️I needed to hear this

Aaron2fresh :

Basically them being fake behind close doors

ChargerKristie :

This is so true...from personal experience unfortunately!

𝒮ℯ𝒸𝓉𝒾ℴ𝓃.01 :

I've always been told I'm a good guy but always end up getting hated on and rejected/Left , Its why I live my life under the radar

Runo :

YOU ARE 42??? i thought you were like 20 or 25..

Laura :

Wow, I never thought about it this way…. It makes so much sense!!

Jen :

Yasssss 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I LOVE this!!! 🔥

californiaemmi :

I didn’t get the memo 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂

Goli Guy Live :

I got Ashwagandha

Nina :

What if guy falls under a little of both?

kaylynn.control :

So so true

Louie Terrazas :

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

The Shrimp Man :

Not true

.gvane2 :

steveunderpants :

I don’t know what is considered good in a relationship. I’ve never been in one and I’m scared that I might do something stupid when I do get in one. I’m going on a date (haven’t formally asked to be her bf yet), but I also have a lot of female friends. I’m not interested in them obviously, but I don’t know how to communicate that to her effectively. And honestly, I like having female friends more. They’re not supper edgy, and it’s easier to just yap to them, but like, should I only save that for my actual gf?

Mermaid Treasures :

Thank you for distinguishing these two men! I definitely want a good guy 😍

Amber :

Yesss thank you!! Just ended my engagement with a “nice” guy 😳

Steph :

totally agree!! signed someone that wasted 9 years on the nice guy