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I think a woman is always looking for the Alpha and if her husband is Alpha , that's good, but the problem is if her ex was more Alpha.. or if she meets a man who is more Alpha than her husband.. very hard for the husband to keep on winning all of these comparisons with other men
2026-07-31 16:15:15
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randy v :
the solution is don't bother dating
2026-07-31 13:49:48
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norman smith9753 :
Nah I'm out! don't want that life long test, you go ahead I'll chill with my dogs.
2026-07-30 22:55:03
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keel :
Do women like being compared to exes?
doubt it.
i think its probably a respect issue.
2026-07-30 23:03:41
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‡Вєшѣвлад Словѣнскаѥго Рода‡ :
Nah, those are respect issues. No one should be getting compared to someones ex. This is one of the reasons why i want someone who never had any prior relationships.
2026-07-31 08:56:56
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user3344025378761 :
Don't get married. Don't cohabitate. Stay on your grind kings. It's not worth it....
2026-07-31 04:46:12
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Aaron Adventurez :
oh and technically the term is called "monkey branching". the constant pursuit to look for someone better
2026-07-31 13:33:03
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EdgarRs :
Loving an avoidant man taught me that showing up fully for someone doesn't guarantee they'll ever do the same for you. Reading My Boy My Toy by Kali Avalore helped me finally understand that his distance was never a reflection of my value, it was simply the ceiling of what he was capable of giving.
2026-07-30 22:06:42
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S. Hedayati :
Amazing points 👏
2026-07-31 15:21:10
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♱Lizzi :
I used to think staying quiet after a breakup meant I didn't care enough to fight for it. Now I know it means I finally care enough about myself to stop fighting for someone who never fought for me. Reading My Boy My Toy by Kali Avalore helped me understand that the silence isn't punishment, it's the space where I finally hear my own voice again.
2026-07-30 22:06:43
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TT :
Nope found my man 6 years ago and stopped looking
2026-07-30 21:57:50
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Sendeggs :
Sorry homey ain’t going to play f ing game. Like I’ve said a million times …better to rent then to buy
2026-07-30 23:55:47
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David Vukmanic :
It’s not the comparison that angers me. It’s how women talk about us among each other. To me that is not acceptable and I hate every little bit of it. Even though mine only puts me on a pedestal so her friends say. I hate hate hate it!!!!!!
2026-07-30 22:30:16
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Rafa :
We compare women too. So I guess it is fair. However, this type of comparison should be kept private, in your own mind because one or both won’t be able to handle the comparison game.
2026-07-30 23:27:20
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Averageguy ❌ :
Why would think men don’t do this?
2026-07-31 01:23:46
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cletusspuckler532 :
I’m so effing tired. I have no Will to engage in an everlasting competition. I’ll stay single, thanks
2026-07-30 21:32:50
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Shawn Cunningham :
And this is exactly why body count matters. They're comparing you to their last ex. Imagine yeah, being compared to 10 20 30 ex's. Yeah, there's no way you're gonna win that one.
2026-07-31 13:54:58
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Robin E :
Hey Op... What is Marriage then? 🤔
"Until I find someone better/hotter/more exciting"?
2026-07-31 07:01:57
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scooter :
Yep
2026-07-30 23:02:03
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soccyou :
yeah, I know i get compared to her ex's. but honestly, I am a better catch. she can go with someone else. I'll find someone else too.
2026-07-30 21:56:08
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WileyWombat :
“Comparison is the Thief of Joy.”
2026-07-31 00:37:33
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Russ :
everyone makes mistakes.
2026-07-30 21:50:26
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infoseeker :
Yeah, we all know this once you're the best, you never have to look over your shoulder. now that you compared your husband to your ex, on social media. wow. that's overboard.imo
2026-07-30 22:19:04
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Tony :
WHY DOES THE TRUTH BOTHER PEOPLE. THATS WHY THESE DAYS, PEOPLE MAKE COMMON SENSE,CONTROVERSIAL.... COMMON SENSE IS NOT, CONTROVERSIAL... SIMPLE!!!
2026-07-30 23:06:35
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