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chloe :
just learned about DARVO & this just explained literally every "defense" people resort to once questioned about the roots their actions... holy shit
2026-08-02 08:06:04
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Tidewata DMV :
Everybody’s been using DARVO lately and it’s my favorite thing to point it out!
2026-08-03 13:58:10
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Sky♈ :
to the black women who don’t understand, if a white man said he won’t date black women bc they’re “loud and mean”, that’s a racist stereotype, thus his preference is rooted in prejudice. This is a similar situation, and yes, I am also black
2026-08-01 12:08:19
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mela_kaye 🇺🇸 :
Ladies I think assuming that the queer community were allies is no more. We’re back to defending consent. We now need to give reasons for why we won’t sleep with a man and if they don’t like them, we are being ridiculed.
2026-08-01 16:48:30
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mimi👾💫 :
i’ve come to realize not only is it homophobia but it’s also that these women’s femininity feels threatened by gay/bi men
2026-07-31 21:38:55
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R A C H E L A D R I N E✨ :
I’m ngl I hate the “trans women say they only date straight men all the time”… like baby that’s homophobia too
2026-07-31 19:27:43
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Samama2707 :
Here it is
2026-07-31 07:47:09
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Tyr🫥 :
Question, what exactly is the end goal of this conversation? To get more people to date bi people?
2026-08-01 12:44:04
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catsandfandoms :
That and they are using TERF talking points…
2026-07-31 16:05:37
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deborahhh.r :
It’s so weird too because straight women hate DL men but actively want the right to express disdain for bi men and think it has no correlation.
2026-08-02 12:18:10
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kekeleekz :
if they’re truly an ally and are comfortable in their sexuality, they can have these conversations and when someone says “hey that’s offensive to the group I belong to”, the response should be to take a look in the mirror, not attack everyone who brought that to their attention. It’s not about forcing them to do anything, it’s about holding up a mirror to how our language can be offensive to people you claimed to be “allies” to🤷🏼♀️
2026-07-31 17:50:41
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Rhomy :
No means no. End of story. Absolutely no one is entitled to anything more than that, including an explanation.
2026-08-02 05:16:05
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PugilisticCephalopod :
It reminds of the Civil War argument of "It was a war for states rights." and the follow up of "The states right to do what?" because telling us "It's just a dating preference" has me saying "a preference against what?"
2026-08-02 06:34:52
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Jarrod 🦋 :
“No is a full sentence” like yes but it’s the reason you say no that’s the homophobia sis!
2026-08-04 18:12:22
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Midius :
Everyone is allergic to introspection. Like dawg no one said you HAVE to do anything but you SHOULD want to look inward and examine your biases. No one’s asking you to change your mind, just consider why you feel the way you do.
2026-08-02 18:35:25
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cas. :
oh ts aint working they not finna COERCE ME to be fine with dating a bi man.
2026-08-08 05:04:46
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colin hill :
I still don’t understand why they feel the need to say anything? Could’ve lived their whole lives dating whoever they want for whatever reason they want, but they had to make it clear they’re a lil homophobic when this topic came up.
2026-08-02 14:45:37
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Nonya :
My whole thing is this…they admit they’re biphobic/homophobic, work through it, and then what? What’s the expectation after that or is that the end goal?
2026-07-31 21:53:02
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mrpinheadpat :
Fact of the matter is they don't actually care about being homophobic or not, they just don't wanna be labeled homophobic because the label makes them feel bad.
2026-08-03 15:42:50
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MissOddsOrEvens :
me: a bisexual with no clue what's happening but knowing it's probably the usual
2026-08-01 22:14:05
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feebeetle :
They always say “I just don’t want to” as their explanation but like if you can’t give specifics I’m assuming it’s homophobia
2026-08-07 11:47:45
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Sativa.diva06 :
I wish they stopped saying “no means no” it’s really insensitive
2026-08-01 21:47:40
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yolo44353 :
You can be an amazing person, but if there’s one thing someone doesn’t want in a partner, you’re not owed a relationship. People keep asking, ‘Why does it matter?’ or ‘How does it affect you?’ It doesn’t have to. You’re allowed to have personal dealbreakers without needing to justify them. People end relationships over politics, religion, smoking, or other things all the time. That doesn’t automatically mean they hate those people. There are mental turn-offs, and not every dating preference is rooted in prejudice.
2026-08-01 17:21:10
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