@cassifrass03: You can't force someone to grow. You can't love them into changing or carry their lessons for them. Sometimes the kindest thing you can do, for them and for yourself, is to step away, let them walk their own path, and protect your own peace. If they choose to grow, it has to be because they want to, not because you begged them to. #LifeLessons #Healing #GrowthMindset #PeaceOverEverything #SelfWorth
The way I tried to be captain save a ho for my family. The really hard part of this lesson for me was that when you try to save people who don’t like you just cause you love them, it drives them further from getting help and getting out. As long as healing comes with you, they’re gonna run from it. But it will never sit right with me that I just had to walk away from my sister. She’s my big sister, and I just wanted her to 1) heal and not continue the cycle, 2) maybe understand me enough through that process that she could learn to love me without the poison of our parents ruining it again. But she’s almost 40. She’s just like our mom. She got dad’s addiction and then married a man just like him, or maybe even worse, and she wants to have kids with him. She’s where she wants to be. And if I want her to leave and heal, I can’t be the one pushing for it. So I let her go. I will always love her, but honestly I don’t think I can be her sister anymore.
2026-07-31 10:27:22
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st.weird🌜 :
this is absolutely one of the hardest lessons I've had to learn 💖
2026-07-31 09:55:46
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Lameez Saban :
2026-08-02 20:36:00
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Shaun Heuer :
dis waar
2026-08-03 06:34:22
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Mel :
🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
2026-08-03 13:17:29
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Nkosi Mtolo :
🙏🙏🤞🥹
2026-08-03 16:22:09
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