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wtfaleisa
wtfaleisa :
THE TAROT READING VIDEOS
2026-07-31 03:51:07
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kellimac7
Kelli :
Omg when I went through my breakup my tiktok feed was insufferable like I just want funny videos and my fyp was all like about attachment style and going no contact LMAO
2026-07-31 06:49:16
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nedralovescosplay
Nedra (nee • dra) 💖 :
Aside from the rumination in the feelings of the breakup, social media also gives you access to your ex’s new relationships and stuff that was unheard of in old times. Like the ability to see date night photos or even just the obsessing over the changes in their following and unfollowing lists is so unhealthy to have access to. And it’s SO normalized to keep up with that stuff. It concerns me a great deal that everyone has normalized this lowkey creepy behavior, under the assumption that everyone is of sound mind and there’s no risk of harm in doing this kind of thing. I feel like an alien sometimes when I tell people I make a conscious effort to not keep up with that stuff, not because I’m some perfect person but because I know that keeping tabs on your ex makes it harder to truly move on. Yes, even if you’re just doing it to make fun of them yk?
2026-07-31 01:50:51
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jordannn_hill
Jordan :
tarot card vids stayed on my neck during my breakup!!!
2026-07-31 01:42:13
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skepticallykept
skepticallykept :
Literally had to go into my algorithm settings on Instagram and block avoidant attachment and tarot lol. I am free now!
2026-07-31 03:24:40
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pinkvenusgirl
venus ♡⸜(ˆᗜˆ˵ )⸝♡ :
No literally when I was going through the worst breakup of my life I couldn’t even go on my phone for months bc everything was making me even more depressed bc of what my feed was
2026-08-01 21:29:36
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get.lolo
Lo :
It keeps you insane and keeps you pessimistic. Then you become pessimistic about much more than relationships…
2026-07-31 01:40:44
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literaleighhhhh
literaleighhhhh :
For me it’s when the tarot card girlies show up on the fyp then I know it’s time to #touch #grass
2026-07-31 04:05:01
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holdingyoursword
ball of yarn :
has anyone noticed that when you get into a happy relationship the algorithm switches to videos along the lines of “we were so happy then he died” or “he cheated” and when you are dealing with a breakup its like the complete opposite…? its like its trying to cause psychosis
2026-08-01 19:11:16
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megsontheloose
meg :
You have to actively stop the algorithm from giving you dating advice!!! Everyone’s soooo les mis
2026-07-31 12:30:50
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blinking990
klee :
going through a break up right now and all the content is KILLING me. if I see one more video about an avoidant discard... I think I have to get off tiktok for a week or more at this point.
2026-07-31 06:53:01
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theadeyouaskedfor
user4145603743177 :
Also this for job searching. Completely different algorithm.
2026-08-02 01:47:56
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susiecrabgrass
carissa :
It's dark sided....
2026-07-31 01:31:45
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its.ogo
Ogo :
I had to break out of the taxi cab theory videos. I think that theory can be really toxic. It’s a tough pill to swallow, but your ex may love somebody more than they loved you and they may never want to get back with you.
2026-07-31 14:19:14
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nat.thewitch
Nat 🏳️‍🌈 :
my cat died on monday and now i keep getting ads for pet memorial things like $250 custom stuffed animal replicas of your pet. and it started literally a couple hours after i got home from the vet.
2026-07-31 02:05:58
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danilmao
dani :
its true. i went through a breakup in November and i started getting love spell content😭😭😭😭
2026-07-31 23:53:44
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lavidalinds
Linds ✨ :
After my breakup, my algorithm was breakup content FOR MONTHS
2026-08-01 17:50:56
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getthechicagolook
Ms. Truth Teller :
it’s worse when you have a crush
2026-07-31 12:39:15
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lizagrilldonovan
Liza :
I think it feeds these kinds of things when you’re in a relationship too. For a while I was getting sooo much content about people being cheated on or finding out about how they had been cheated on. I wouldn’t be surprised if they know exactly what you’re insecure about in a relationship and feed you more of that lol.
2026-07-31 01:44:06
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maddymc40
Madison McC :
When the sun goes down and the quote carousels come out..it’s time to close the app 🫠
2026-08-01 18:30:31
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thebreckdiaries
rocky mtn court jester :
Also, there’s some research in language psychology where your social media activity can actually predict your breakup (in some cases). Similar to how some algorithms can predict pregnancy bc of changes in behavioral data, breakups can function similarly. I worked in a language lab examining this issue 5ish years ago, it’s fascinating
2026-07-31 08:14:34
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yoambular
YoAmbular 🫥 :
Going through one now. I’m getting everything from tarot, spells, “he knows he messed up” to I’m a bad b and I don’t need a man 😭😭😭
2026-07-31 05:17:43
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infpeachtea
Nia 🌷🍵 :
I had this happen with a friendship breakup/platonic falling out. I got so many “don’t worry you’re the good guy and the other person is an emotionally immature narcissist” pop psych therapy speak vids. It scared me to consider the ex friend was getting them too. 😬🫤
2026-07-31 04:44:40
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itsnikibabe
Niki :
It’s diabolical. I can’t even imagine how it affects teenagers.
2026-07-31 15:12:40
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jr.sopranos.zenni.order
Bee🐝 :
I finally had to deactivate Facebook because the algorithm decided that, because I followed a couple animal rescues, that meant I wanted to see nonstop photos of animals rescued from horrible neglect. It was a literal hellscape. Obviously you see something horrible, it stops you from scrolling out of shock, and the algorithm rewards it
2026-07-31 04:05:55
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